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Good resources? Your looking at one of them, GFY board does advertising for spots (great results btw) Also you have AVN magazine, the shows.. etc. It's much easier in this business right now to market business to business then it is to get consumer signups in paysites.
Hit me up on ICQ, (if you don't have it get it at
www.icq.com)
my number is 63881097
I'll give more insight and even call for some consulting
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