Originally Posted by whatif_3

years later, i have determined that much of this is a farce. i have some friends that are very faithful/loyal to their wives, but the majority of the successful ones, have something going on the side, whether the wive knows about it or not.

the situation becomes one of, well, we have 2 kids together and i make a lot of money, what will she do, leave me? sort of thing

things seem to work fine, at least on the surface