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Originally Posted by Libertine
It seems a bit... pointless. You could just have let her spend the night, and have them sleep in separate rooms.
At that age, if they're gonna have sex with each other, they'll do it regardless of an opportunity like this one. Being around to make sure things don't get out of hand is always a good thing. And meeting your son's girlfriend and having a chat with her helps, too.
More important, though, is having "the uncomfortable talk" - the one in which you don't just explain to your son the dangers of unsafe sex, but also the reasons why it's important to take things slowly and wait until he's a bit older.
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You obviously don't have kids. Using your logic banks should just let bank robbers rob banks since they are going to do it anyways. It doesn't matter if the sneak off and do it. Setting down rules that must be followed is not a BAD thing for kids to learn. In grown up world you get told NO very often. He might as well learn that now.