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BigDeanEvans · 08-27-2010, 05:53 PM

Cinderella Story

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Women believe that movies and books are real. This is most obvious in their perception of the "romantic comedy" genre aka "chick flick". Of course most of them don't believe the actual actors are being filmed in a reality production showing a slice of an actual relationship. What they do believe is that what is being presented on screen is the pinnacle of male-female relationships and that they and every one around them should pattern their lives like what they see or read : role models. If the guy in their life doesn't act like that on-screen dipsh*t every single day of their lives together, they are dissatisfied.

The plots usually involve an irresistible female lead with a heart of gold and a strong male lead who gets turned into a "mangina" little omega-male by her ravishing awesomeness and throws away his life, bank account, aspirations, career, sanity, health and good judgement just to be in her presence.

What is the woman's reaction to this self-destructive male? Outwardly she may laugh and say it isn't reality. But inwardly , you can bet your last dollar ( if some woman hasn't spent it yet) she <b>CRAVES</b> this kind of martyrdom and worship from men. This is normal female behavior which is the origin of most female-oriented entertainment,chick flicks, Disney movies, soap operas, fairy tales throughout history.

The really crazy part is that for women, they want the first few weeks of romantic chasing to repeat everyday even after marriage. Modern women are still looking for Prince Charming within minutes of their weddings. This is the source of most sexless marriages ; the wife is still playing 'hard-to-get' even after she has been gotten! How fkn ridiculous is that? Why does she play these silly games? Because the only part of the male-female relationship that the modern female will accept is the courtship phase when she can act faux independently and have the male chase her. Because she can't accept a submissive role as wife to her husband , her life is miserable after the marriage and she tries to "re-create" the "magic" of being pursued by the male and showered with gifts over and over and over. This is the source of Valentine's Day, Mother's Day and the freakin 2 week long 'birthdays' that most women seem to get these days.

Males competing for female attention is also a natural thing. But what has happened is that women stopped asking themselves what kind of woman attracts a real man .Because of stubborn unnatural pride ,they have settled for weak-males, abusers,philanderers, or loneliness rather than submit to a good man and reap the benefits.

If you look at the Cinderella story in it's original form it is a classic example of a woman overcoming inter-female back-biting , bitchiness, faux independence and the herd mentality by submitting herself to a man according to the natural order and consequently being rewarded at every turn.

Unfortunately, the Cinderella story in fantasy and consequently reality( because women believe in the Cinderella story as it applies to reality) has been twisted and distorted to fit the unnatural paradigm women have slipped into over the last 90 years. Mangina actor's guild chief Hugh Grant as the bumbling skirt-chasing fkn moron "Prince Charming" , Sara Jessica Parker as the obnoxious Cindi (with an 'i') Rella looking to catch ,castrate and wedge some poor jerk into her life somewhere between shopping , drinking and whoring around and OPRAH ! as the fairy god-mother giving glass slippers to all today's audience members.

What has changed is instead of appreciating a female role where the female submits herself to be lifted up by a man out of a low status into a higher position and being taken care of the rest of her days, women now want "irresistible independent mouthy uncouth graceless female lead b*tch characters with incredibly successful careers". This is their <i>choice</i> in fantasy and for role models in reality (which for women is the same) .

This is why women are always dissatisfied; they set not only impossible standards for men, but standards that men want nothing to do with and conflict directly with men's own natural behavior and their standards for themselves . At the same time women have NO such legendary expectations of their own behavior. The double-standard that women have is staggering. It must be some sort of defense mechanism that allows them all to avoid being crushed by their own hypocrisy.

Reality Check : Do they believe that men think to themselves "wow, nothing like an independent icy-career b*tch (a la 'Sex in the City')to get my man-juices flowing".

Men find honor in responsibility, duty and strength.

Women should find honor in submission, caring and grace.

But not the modern American single gal.

They trumpet " I will never submit to a MAN! " "I don't NEED no MAN !", write stage plays about finding female strength in talking to their genitalia , demand special treatment to make them "feel" equal to men loudly and proudly in public while privately drinking and taking their meds for depression and neurosis ,and wondering and wailing about "why they can't get or keep a good man".

Pride before the fall.