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spazlabz · 02-02-2011, 04:26 PM

I left the quote blank because I have a fair memory and it will save space

Thanks for the kind words about debate, but as far as my first thought being to try and get the upper hand by name calling... naw, not much into that and I definitely appreciate the mutual respect. I extend it to you as well since the lack of civility lately in our society both here and public is appalling to me.

Now on to what you said, As hard as it might be for anyone to believe I intellectually understand the points you are making, I certainly do not have the experience you have had banging over 1k women. I mean by regular guy status I have been a bit greedy but DAMN DUDE! dont over work the soldier! hahaha

I have seen bat shit crazy women that are vindictive as fuck all. A very good friend of mine has an ex wife that cut herself with broken glass and went to the police to say he stabbed her. Luckily it worked out and the cops actually investigated it. I understand that there are insane ass chicks out there that will try that shit.

But

You're fight or flight instincts you mentioned earlier, while fundamentally true lack the psychological complexity necessary to really understand the topic. Some chicks are scared to death, can't move or can't fight. They are raised with a fear of authority and not all of them have the mental strength to fight back. I am sure you have seen the type of women I am talking about and know this is true.

Changing the definition of rape would basically be re-enforcing some woman's fears that they are at fault, that the authorities won't believe them and no one will be there to help them when they need it.

US Laws are not perfect, not even close and I will acknowledge that there are the occasional male victims of false allegations. But that will not be fixed by redefining rape. In my opinion it is a short sighted knee jerk reaction for a completely alterior(sp) motive that has nothing to do with men's rights or the abuse of women claiming rape when there is none

one final thing. The girl 1 and girl 2 archetypes that you mentioned. My own personal belief is that no woman 'is asking for it'. I understand the sexual game as well as the next guy but I do not look at a woman dressed like a "slut" and think 'oh yeah she wants it, she wants it bad' nope, I just think 'Hey, I'd like to get to know her better and maybe I'll get fucked'. However being blessed with a hideous face has taught me that most likely I won't

The next time I am in Vegas I will buy you and your wife a round of drinks and I promise to be respectful and expect nothing except good conversation in return. Deal?

02-02-2011, 04:26 PM
spazlabz Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Kentucky Posts: 6,548	I left the quote blank because I have a fair memory and it will save space Thanks for the kind words about debate, but as far as my first thought being to try and get the upper hand by name calling... naw, not much into that and I definitely appreciate the mutual respect. I extend it to you as well since the lack of civility lately in our society both here and public is appalling to me. Now on to what you said, As hard as it might be for anyone to believe I intellectually understand the points you are making, I certainly do not have the experience you have had banging over 1k women. I mean by regular guy status I have been a bit greedy but DAMN DUDE! dont over work the soldier! hahaha I have seen bat shit crazy women that are vindictive as fuck all. A very good friend of mine has an ex wife that cut herself with broken glass and went to the police to say he stabbed her. Luckily it worked out and the cops actually investigated it. I understand that there are insane ass chicks out there that will try that shit. But You're fight or flight instincts you mentioned earlier, while fundamentally true lack the psychological complexity necessary to really understand the topic. Some chicks are scared to death, can't move or can't fight. They are raised with a fear of authority and not all of them have the mental strength to fight back. I am sure you have seen the type of women I am talking about and know this is true. Changing the definition of rape would basically be re-enforcing some woman's fears that they are at fault, that the authorities won't believe them and no one will be there to help them when they need it. US Laws are not perfect, not even close and I will acknowledge that there are the occasional male victims of false allegations. But that will not be fixed by redefining rape. In my opinion it is a short sighted knee jerk reaction for a completely alterior(sp) motive that has nothing to do with men's rights or the abuse of women claiming rape when there is none one final thing. The girl 1 and girl 2 archetypes that you mentioned. My own personal belief is that no woman 'is asking for it'. I understand the sexual game as well as the next guy but I do not look at a woman dressed like a "slut" and think 'oh yeah she wants it, she wants it bad' nope, I just think 'Hey, I'd like to get to know her better and maybe I'll get fucked'. However being blessed with a hideous face has taught me that most likely I won't The next time I am in Vegas I will buy you and your wife a round of drinks and I promise to be respectful and expect nothing except good conversation in return. Deal?