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Gonna throw in my 2 cents on marriage... And I truly believe what I'm gonna type...
IMHO, All life is based around a 7 year cycle. ie:
0 = Newborn - Unable to do ANYTHING for oneself...
7 = Child - Still needing help, but can feed itself, use toilet etc...
14 = Teenager - Independent (ish) - Own views and ideas etc...
21 = Man - Grown up, but still green to the world
28 = Mature man - Starting to understand what is what...
35 = Almost middle aged - Knows what is what now.... Hoping for a better future, at a later age....
42 = Grown Man. Half Life has passed - Starts looking to future - Considering own mortality...
49 = Looking toward caring for offspring etc...
ETC ETC...
My Point being that EVERY SEVEN YEARS- We become a different person, with different values and concerns...
So... Thats why they say the 7 year itch... Why get 'Married' to someone, who in 7 years, will be a totally different person?
You will also be a totally different person... So... Aside from companionship.. What is the point?
I'd never get married again - This ISNT the dark ages, where you 'live in sin'...
Just stay together, for as long as you or her want to, then, 14 / 21 / 28 years down the road, you can part, if you are different people... No need to legally stay together...
Sure, if you STILL WANT TO BE TOGETHER - More power to you ! ENJOY...
But, if not... Just part with minimal hassle...
Just my genuine opinion...
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