Originally Posted by JesseQuinn

^^^Guys are looking to fill a wide variety of needs that may or may not be sexual in nature when they seek out cam chicas, for sure. I wouldn't necessarily consider these types of customers 'lonely', however. Some just work really long hours and want someone with whom to experience mental as well as physical stimulation. There's as many motivations behind the desire for what I call 'talking shows' as there are customers who enjoy them. I spend a great deal of time on cam fully-clothed and talking, and very few of these guys lack a solid group of friends and/or family. Most just need a break from the obligations that those relationships entail.

I spent 3 hours in a paid show last night talking U.S. politics and critical whiteness theory with a happily married regular of mine who shows me pics of himself and his family every time they go on vacation. I see him at least once a week, but he's not lonely in the slightest. He just travels alot on business and gets bored sitting in hotel rooms. Other guys crave a sounding board for talking about issues in their personal lives. Yes, while some guys crave a bit of emotional companionship, I wouldn't consider that motivation to necessarily equate with 'loneliness', and it usually doesn't based upon my personal experience. I just think that part of what cammers provide is a no-strings-attached intimate interaction (whatever that interaction may entail).

I get alot of fetish customers (although definitely nowhere near the amount of fetish guys who visit sites like Kink, however), but the one that really sticks out as unusual for me is an infrequent reg I have who likes to see me smoke and light post-it-notes on fire with my cigarettes. It's fun and he's delightful, but I don't understand the fetish at all. Like alot of y'all I get really curious about from what origin these fetishes emerge. Smoking fetish, muscle fetish, SPH, forced bi, those kinds of fetish I do understand, but with others I'm like...really? I just...don't get it. I asked my 'burning post-it note' guy once what he found so hot about it, and his reply was "who wouldn't want to see a beautiful woman burn post-it notes?"