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Old 07-10-2013, 10:58 AM  
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Polyamorous Relationships

Weird situation, I'm sure for most people out there. But it seems pretty fucking ideal to me!

I have a Girlfriend and a girlfriend. They know about each other and are actually friendly with each other. I was in the midst of leaving one for the other and it seems that it may be possible for me to have my cake and eat it too. And not just being able to have a side piece, more like buying the house next door and moving her in type of thing. I know it might be a case of my Girlfriend doing what she can to keep me around. The girlfriend is the one who actually tossed the idea out there. I'm just in the middle and the things both of them are throwing around jive and don't sound too bad to me.

My only real concern would be kids. But they're young and have seen two men married more than once, and at 4 and 5 understand the concept of "gay"...so my concern isn't too great. They know that different things work for different people.

I'm not a monogamous person in any way shape or form. This doesn't seem all that far fetched to me, but I can see how most "squares" would think. Thankfully we're not all that square here. What would you do? I'd love to know.
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