What you need is called
DigitalOcean
- SSD drives BLAZING FAST!!!!
- Lots of ram and fast CPU
- 1TB of bandwidth
- cheap backups
- fast and seamless upgrades
- instant activation/provisioning
- can buy install cPanel yourself for easier management
- if you need any help - feel free to contact me at celebempire{at}gmail(dot)com
you can make one instance just MySQL server, one for static php (apache) and one instance for nginx (statics)...
you can start also start with everything on and just upgrade when you need more power...
it will be super-fast...