Originally Posted by Meloman

Tell her you didn't say anything before because you were waiting for the project to bring in some big dollars so you could prove it was worth it. Talk about how the money would elevate both your lifestyles and you want more for the both of you. You haven't changed nor will you ever and will always love her the same. This is simply about making big money in a fun way. Tell her she can come to a shoot if she wants and see for herself it's just business.

Just be careful not to turn her into golddigger by spending too much of your "new porn wealth" on her...

Good luck. Been there before and some women just don't like it. Whether it's personal insecurities, the fear of what others (family, friends) may think of her if it gets out etc.