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Originally Posted by TheSquealer
Women aren't attracted to the nice guy. Remember this.... the nicest guy in the room, is the weakest guy in the room.
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Regarding hero's, Harvey from the series Suits is a hero to me.
He doesn't take shit, he's never under pressure, he always has the answer and he is one of the best closers, in the show he can take any woman home.
I have in business said to myself, what would Harvey do - as on the show he finds creative ways to deal with issues and he is able to read people, able to handle situations tactfully etc.
Maybe I need to apply this Harvey attitude to more of my life, particularly dating.
Not being the nice guy is going to be an extreme change as that is the only approach I have ever used, and to be honest I haven't got far - not far at all.
Maybe its time for a change, maybe I should show some attitude, let them know I'm awesome and they would be lucky to be with me.
I see myself as always being a gentleman, from bringing her a chair to opening the door etc etc
I once nearly even asked a friend if he would rather let his girlfriend walk so he could give this girl a lift instead - she saw this and it didn't go down well.
Truth is, I could write a decent list of times that I think I've made mistakes with this girl that we're discussing now.
