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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
So don't let a lot of your life go by focusing on this situation. Focus on the FUTURE man. Set Goals, be social, work out, watch funny movies, work harder and it will all be in the past before you realize it. Good luck!
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Thank you for the input, I like that advice, I need to focus on myself but I'm definitely longing for someone to enjoy special times with, someone to take on dates, to enjoy new experiences etc - but they need to be worth while and obviously they need to appreciate it.
I see relationships as an investment, both financially but more importantly emotionally. I think I need to guard myself a little more and not go all in, as with this case.
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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
Here's some free advice that will actually change your life:
Do not "be yourself". Be who you WANT to be. What do I mean? From your approach with this girl to your posts about this subject here, it is obvious that you do not even know who "you" are yet. Which is ok and perfectly normal. Sometimes tho "fake it til you make it" can be powerful, as long as you choose a persona that doesn't lead you to be an arrogant asshole. LOL
Google Cary Grant/Archie Leech and see how he transformed his life from a cockney circus clown (yes) into one of the most sophisticated, charming and impressive leading men in Hollywood history. 
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I want to be Harvey, how Harvey handles business, how he handles conflict, how he handles negativity and how he walks into a room and demands attention by simply being there. Thank you, I'm going to actively try and apply the Harvey persona into my life.
Have you watched the series Suits?