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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
Sorry, one last pithy thing to add: I used to worry about how I looked, what I wore, how much I weighed, etc etc. Then one day it hit me like a lightning bolt. The ONLY thing I have to be to a woman is...interesting. That's it. that's the secret of "How did HE get HER?" and why you see gorgeous women with fugly shmoos. The ugly shmoos have no choice but to be interesting. If you have any looks at all then you become James Bond or Cary Grant.  |
Thank you, that's a good idea - I've listed a few topics that I mentally have on hand and that I use when talking to new girls, if you have any suggestions please add them.
I would like to be more interesting, and like you say - that will take some pressure off on the other aspects of looks etc.
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Originally Posted by jimmycooper
Good point. I guess it's just been so long since I've had any problems with starting a conversation that I've forgotten how much of a bitch it was back in the day.
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That's the spirit, I would love to be able to say that one day
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Originally Posted by GAMEFINEST
Talk to as many girls are possible, go out, socialize.
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Thank you, that might be the best way to learn, make mistakes and meet more girls and therefore not get hang up.
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Originally Posted by TheSquealer
My point was that you can write your own script and use it. Just notes of topics and lines and jokes. Not use canned lines from a pick up site that everyone has heard a 1000 times. However, that works just fine as well and you can adjust as needed based on feedback/response. What you say to initiate a conversation is not as important as the next things you say. My personal thing is to be different and be yourself at the same time. Pickup is sales. Usually a sales pitch starts with a retarded/transparent opener... but if you are interested in the product, you'll keep listening until they fully blow it or sell you on it.
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Please take a look at the scenario I posted above, do you have any other suggestions for topics that I should use?
PS: Thank you for all your advice so far, I'm definitely learning a lot here.
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Originally Posted by Jel
To borrow a couple of phrases:
1. The more you tighten your grip, the more will slip through your fingers
2. life is like a fart... if you have to force it, it's likely to turn into a shit
Relax, go with the flow of life, don't force things, be like water that naturally runs around rocks and gets to where it gets to, not the water that crashes into the rocks over and over |
Yeah, maybe I am rushing and there shouldn't be a reason to rush just yet