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Originally Posted by WannabeMiddleMan
Not being the nice guy is going to be an extreme change as that is the only approach I have ever used, and to be honest I haven't got far - not far at all.
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You can still be nice guy, but nice meaning decent-good heart guy, not needy-bitchy type nice. Be decent guy, but also introduce some alpha male elements into the mix.
If you tried to completely change from nice guy to bad boy you would probably fail because it would not flow naturally for yo at all.
So just start with eliminating neediness out of your interaction and add some indifference instead. For starters.