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There are many now that are peer-to-peer but integrating them into a chatroom API is not practical. That Omibod device is clever in that its use the existing sound output of a chatroom API to activate the vibe. In 1980 terms it works like the 'clapper' to the sound system computer speakers -- that input and output was always there.
Other devices are like a horse and a automobile -- you can ride both that is all they a have in common.