My opinion is that there are those out there that need the "lust" feeling rather than love. A whole new set of feelings come into play when you meet someone and your desire is much higher. Whether they are getting it at home with their partner at all doesn't matter - it's the simple fact that some people just need to feel loved or desired by more than one person. Women do it - Men do it. That's why marriage even a relationship = love isn't a feeling it's an act of the will. Feelings aren't always there and if you rely on feelings you'll want that again. It's why those that are addicted always try and get that "first high" feeling again
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