@sarettah - you are very helpful and inspiring!
Looked at your site to try to understand the cookie thing.
Is there a reason you use the old embed code (chaturbate.com/embed/<room>? I think you are "missing" a cookie - the newer iframe embed code (from promo tools) sets a cookie as early as when it is opened. Tested and working.
Now your users has to click inside your iframe to go to chaturbate and get a cookie. So if they leave your site after watching for a while, your cookie is not set.
Just wondering if it is intentional... seems you earn "enough" from your screenshots anyway.