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Originally Posted by clickity click
Sure they can. About 2 months under the right conditioning.
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Originally Posted by TheSquealer
who you are is not static and changes from second to second and is influenced by everything around you from every conversation you have to every piece of stimulus from your environment.
If you are asking if people can make major behavioral changes, the answer is obviously yes. I can turn you into a murderer, i can torture you to psychosis, i can convince you to join a cult and slowly turn you into a completely different person with different values. For the most part, a person cannot make major and quick positive changes in who they are without wanting to and without making a focused and persistent effort to do so.
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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
People can change yes, but in my experience ONLY when they absolutely MUST change. Wanting to, or wishing it would happen, rarely works.
Life, The Universe, Karma, God - call it what you will. But it will force change upon you.
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Originally Posted by XXXBizXXX
never ever. no fucking way
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Originally Posted by Rochard
Of course people can change. In fact, people do change. When you've known someone over twenty years, you see a lot of change.
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Originally Posted by holograph
only thing constant in life is change 
people do change.
they do not like to change due to established level of comfort and stability. remove that and see what happens.
other than that, as mentioned above, one can change if they want to and apply some determination
with people's environment or life-style changes, person's behavior will adopt, over time that may reflect on their character too. everything is relative and conditional, that goes to change itself as well. |
great comments. they say GFY is dead? some pretty smart fucking people surf this place.
i wanna change something. years & years are passing & i do not do it. ruining my life. im too comfortable. lazy. i need an external force to force me, like a boot camp. today i dont know where this force will come from. obviously it must come from within if it does not come from without. i am a great writer, planner, thinker. terrible do-er. this must change. i will be so amazing if i can cross the bridge to working hard. i have a great website & nobody knows, cause i dont make it better. my best content is unpublished & ive gotten so lazy i wont even post it. its 1 year to the day, my last update. its crazy.
/end of sulking.