talked with ruth and got reply from the support
they both told me that once my money had gone from their system they cant reverse it :D how fucking awesome is that :3 so literally they are helping the hackers to get away with the hard earned money of mine :v
but still they have dispute/resulation centre :D why they have it if they cant do anything and specially if they cant help their customers ??
paypal , neteller , payoneer and skrill are much much much better then paxum. because they can reverse the fund as well as they can give my fund back when i claim a dispute.
so from today i will not use paxum ever. im done with paxum.