I have one, it was totally planned at 28 years old.
I got snipped immediately because we wanted just one.
I used to be 100% against having a baby. We decided we have the means and the want to do this, so we did.
Glad we're not struggling financially. Honestly, if you can get yourself setup first, the baby is a new family member, a new addition to an established life.
It doesn't always work out that way and I have respect for those who have them in other circumstances.
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