If you can reasonable accommodate and REALLY want a child, I would advise having one and stop like I did if you're okay with just one.
I was on the fence for so long. Don't look at other people's kids, it's not the same feeling. It's a child between two parents, a mini you (both of you together). Totally different feeling than watching someone else's.
I honestly don't have a worse quality of life. We take turns going out / getting a babysitter for the times we want to go out together.
Usually the people that are good at making things work in life can easily pull this off.
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