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Originally Posted by Scott McD
I'm 35. Not a parent and never want to be one. My wife however wants one kid.
What is your position on the topic ?? Many you got/want ?
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To be really blunt: if you're fairly sure - even a bit uncertain - you don't want kids, stand firm. Once you make that decision, you're going to be stuck with the consequences for the next 20+ years. Even longer if you have a "problem" child (my sister is law is fortysomething and she's still leaning on her parents and making their life hell). This is not like moving to a new city for a job that turns out to be shitty; you cannot go back to the way things were when you realise things don't work out the way you planned. Don't be pressured into doing something you're going to regret.
If you talk and it suddenly seems like a good idea, don't go and fuck without a condom ten minutes later. Think about it the next day, and the next, and the next. There's no great rush.