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Old 09-26-2016, 12:22 PM  
Ross
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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon View Post
this is really something you should hash out before getting married. if one person wants a kid and the other doesn't no matter what way it goes there is a good chance someone will harbor resentment towards the other for either keeping them from having the family they've dreamed of or burden them with kids they never really wanted.
Things change. Women can not safely say they do not want kids and mean it, there is always a risk. The couple Scott is talking about (my friends too) the guy wanted kids badly, the woman had no intentions of ever having a child in her life. The guys sister had a new baby, first time the woman met said new baby, she wanted a kid, just like that.

Sadly it is not a happy home right now as has been said, which might have something to do with the wife making such a drastic switch to go from never to wanting. Who knows but all I know is women cannot say 100% they do not want a kid because it takes the tiniest of triggers to make them change their mind.
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