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Originally Posted by JesseQuinn
^^^lol, true say =)
think Ryu has prob the best advice re planting seeds
before I moved I just went down to the street to the gorgeous man I'd been innocently flirting with for over a year but hadn't hit yet as I was trying to save a relationship on life support. then that plug got pulled. we were together for 15 years and he was the only person I'd ever loved in 'that' way
think I stayed long enough to fall out of love so when we quit I moved on more easily than normal probably. just a guess, all this is new to me. I had never been in a capital R relationship before my soon to be ex husband, just wasn't interested
I'm far more batshit than he (new dude-he's almost obnoxiously well-balanced) but access to wicked sex problem solved. and he's still just an hour and half drive away now that I'm out of the city. really trying to maintain mental distance and be clear with him about that as I am NOT up for a relationship, but god damn he's fun. next visit on Sunday
is picking people up online for hook-ups actually effective? not asking for myself, last thing I want is to do more stuff online, just genuinely curious
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Yeah, I need to start keeping chicks as friends for the secondary and tertiary lays. I've been disregarding that lately.
Is picking up people online effective? Yes it is... I think I've had 30 or 40 lays via online total. Nothing crazy but also nothing minor either. You really have to have fun with it, as it is a numbers game. You can actually download your data off of Tinder and it'll show you how many profiles you seen, how many right swipes you did and how many of them resulted in messages. If you make it "work" then it can become a second job; that's why you have to make it a game. That's also why nothing meaningful comes out of Tinder. haha.
The girls on Hinge are more relationship minded, which is nice. It's also a lot easier to start a relationship with them too.
I have no success on Bumble.
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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
Probably but who cares now?
I pumped and dumped them bro.  |
Do they fall for the same trick over and over again?