I can tell you're a kind, empathetic person with a good sense of where others are coming from, but on this, I gotta disagree
he's so deep in his own issues I don't know how he could be of constructive help to her
just my opinion, could be wrong, but I think his brand of attitude is probably the last thing she needs right now. if he was a more effective at development work he could offer to pay for HER to see a therapist. after hell freezes over and stuff
all he does is try to shame others while extolling his super-human virtues
lol as well at him being Black. where's that from, ten generations down the lineage someone fit the blood quantum? Black don't crack so what's with the forehead wrinkles?
Red don't crack either, which is why I can eat sparingly with a diet that would make a nutritionist cringe, smoke like a chimney, in my 40's and wrinkle-free. I look pretty white tho. white dad (RIP, he passed a couple months ago and I miss him so much), my mom is Native and I grew up absorbing Native values from them both. one of which is being humble, to the earth that supports and sustains us, and to those we share it with. so I call myself a paleface. not white in how I operate in this world, but to the world def not perceived as Native
nor would I want to be, I don't have that right
also a significant benefit; cops in Canada didn't pull me over walking at night to search my pockets and rape me in the back of a cop car if they found even a bit of herb, let alone lsd or whites (an occasional treat back in the day). that phenomenon is not an irregular occurrence amongst Black, Brown and Red women, or at least it wasn't up til 2014 when I left Canada for good
the OP calling himself 'Black' is, aside from being comical, an insult. it negates everything visibly racialized peeps experience on a daily basis. genetic lottery? so blond hair and blue eyes are supposed to be an inherently attractive thing? my ass. he's a white boy (note he referred to his dick as a B
WC) who just needs to insult everyone else, debasing everyone who isn't him to prop himself up
excellent try Wautier, but he's in too deep to listen. I can't even fathom spending ten minutes in a room speaking with this individual, I hope the Mormon ladies flee from him accordingly. he might find luck in the stepford nation tho, provided they receive enough valium to make it through another controlled, tedious day
this thread while funny for a bit is pretty sad. hope the OP finds a way of valuing himself from something other than yt vids of angry men threatened by women just trying to be ourselves on our own terms, absent ish from some gallant stallion in his own mind