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Originally Posted by Huggles
Does the porn industry allow you to self-express sexually and turn a profit. or do you stay behind the camera 100%?
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for me definitely, in front of the camera. off cam in adult same thing. I like people, I REALLY like people. dunno why cuz as a whole we can be a nasty species but I can't help it. just love 'em
biggest extrovert one would ever encounter, but thankfully have pretty good instincts so that I can avoid dealing with bad seeds. I pay attention to what people say and write as it is of genuine interest me, and through that I absorb a lot. I can be wordy as fuck but often listen/read more than I talk/write cuz that's fun and I like learning about others
my cam clients really like that about me I think, they can tell I am actually engaged with what they are saying. secretly it's selfish though cuz I enjoy it. being myself is the service I sell, which is kinda weird when you think about it
has helped me a lot during my travels, takes me like 10 mins to make friends even if I'm alone in a brand new environment
IRL outside of work stuff, having a wicked convo is the ultimate foreplay to me. let's dance, yeah you can lick my puss, but
talk to me and let me into your head to really get the juices flowing
on cam, I get paid for that. GFE comes naturally to me and I massively enjoy it. same with fetish; peeps sharing their private desires with me that they typically keep to themselves is a kind of an honour, that they trust me and grant me entry to those parts of their lives
behind the scenes in adult it's def helped me cultivate biz relationships, as I'm a pretty open book and people can easily figure out who they're dealing with
as well, while I like running my own stuff on my own terms I don't think I'd enjoy it (or be successful at it) were it not for those around me. success is not a solitary zero sum game to me and while I hate 'networking' (I prefer more organic interactions), connections with others def strengthens my biz behind the scenes as well. peeps can tell I think that their biz interests are a part of the equation so it's easier to formulate and get into a plan without eons of figuring each other out first
same applies to my offline non-adult biz. it's doing really well but couldn't have done it, be doing it, without those around me. that's a thrill too
tldr; so not tits, not azz, not pussy, not dick (although all those things are super fun). it's conversation, engaging with people be it offline or on the net
being in adult and getting to monetize what I do anyway? priceless