Q. What percentage of couples climax simultaneously?
Sure it's nice to climax at the same time, but to set that as a goal for every sexual experience is unrealistic. It could also become quite boring if it were the only sexual pattern you and your partner ever have. While there's nothing wrong with simultaneous orgasms, remember that there are many sexual options available which can be equally enjoyable. Striving for simultaneous orgasms can require considerable concentration on your partner's sexual feelings, and leaves you less time for your own sexual pleasure. Instead of just letting go and enjoying yourself you might find your lovemaking will become a game, motivated by strategic planning rather than by emotional and sexual desires. By having consecutive orgasms, each partner can focus on his/herself, knowing that the others turn will come. Discovering sexual patterns that satisfy both lovers is most important. Sexual variations should be mutually agreed upon, placing performance standards on sexual behavior can only serve to inhibit and diminish sexual pleasure.
