design sucks
you want to be nice and crisp with your graphics, use glow / shadows where needed, not all over the graphic it looks cheap.
put a drop shadow on your text or something so it stands out.
overloading on cheesy effects isn't always the best. go simple, use some other sites as reference. and get rid of all that line or grid crap u have going around your border, it looks lame ;)
i think you have a drop shadow on some of your text, but do it on all, and not that kind of drop shadow, you want to make it a 1 / 1/ 1 setting in photoshop. so it stands out and is crisp.
this blurry shit does not fly.
also make your img's of girls look all the same color, not this one sooo white, and this one soo dark, etc.