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Originally Posted by KRL
How many of you have had a girlfriend get an abortion.
I had to deal with that 2 times when I was young and to this day I'm still troubled by it and think what those kids would have been like.
Unfortunately, men don't get a say in the decision which is what I have a problem with and think is grossly unfair.
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I know 2 people who had abortions, both females were in their late teens. Both couples are extremely happy they had the OPTION to choose an abortion, and feel they made the right decision. I can see your point of how it's unfair the man doesn't have a choice, but it really comes down to the fact that the woman holds the baby for 9 months in their belly. That's quite a bit of time, and not to mention the changes a woman's body must endure post and prenatal. It would be tough if I were in a situation where I wanted the child and my girlfriend didn't, but I would respect any decision she made even though it would be against mine.