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BenPOF · 01-27-2012, 10:26 AM

Hey guys,

Just wanted to come on here to see if I could help any of you adult guys expand your business into mainstream

Not gonna throw up a pitch on here cuz I hate that shit too! I've been at POF for well over 2 years now and am considered the absolute authority on all things related to advertising on POF. Marina over at sexsearch.com suggested I come hang out so here I am!

My advertising blog is here (includes GANGSTER information/case studies/tips): blog.ads.pof.com - all content here is free for you to check out.

Mostly, I'm just looking forward to meeting with y'all and making some new people from a different side of the industry. If there is any interest in advertising with us, I'll post some info but not if it's uninvited.

Cheers,

Ben

The Heron · 01-27-2012, 10:32 AM

How come I can't get laid on pof?!

BenPOF · 01-27-2012, 11:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Heron

How come I can't get laid on pof?!

Treat your profile as an ad campaign: Split test pictures/profile information, view dates as "clicks" and getting laid as "conversions"... optimize until you have an acceptable ROI

But... sounds like you should have a much easier time with some of the sites I see advertised here LOL

Profits of Doom · 01-28-2012, 08:38 PM

I'm actually working on creatives for a POF campaign so I'd love for you to post any info or tips you have. I'm also checking out your blog right now...

Anthony · 01-28-2012, 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BenPOF

Hey guys,

Just wanted to come on here to see if I could help any of you adult guys expand your business into mainstream

Not gonna throw up a pitch on here cuz I hate that shit too! I've been at POF for well over 2 years now and am considered the absolute authority on all things related to advertising on POF. Marina over at sexsearch.com suggested I come hang out so here I am!

My advertising blog is here (includes GANGSTER information/case studies/tips): blog.ads.pof.com - all content here is free for you to check out.

Mostly, I'm just looking forward to meeting with y'all and making some new people from a different side of the industry. If there is any interest in advertising with us, I'll post some info but not if it's uninvited.

Cheers,

Ben

Hey Ben, welcome!

topsiteking · 01-29-2012, 02:09 AM

Welcome Ben!

BAKO · 01-29-2012, 12:34 PM

I'm in interested email [email protected]

Dating Port · 01-29-2012, 01:08 PM

Hi Ben! Welcome to GFY! I'm off to check out your blog now...

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Heron

How come I can't get laid on pof?!

POF users can see through fake fan signs??!!!

Mr Pheer · 01-29-2012, 07:53 PM

POF has an affiliate program? Hit me up if thats true.

[email protected]

BenPOF · 01-30-2012, 03:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Profits of Doom

I'm actually working on creatives for a POF campaign so I'd love for you to post any info or tips you have. I'm also checking out your blog right now...

I'd have to look at your stuff individually, send me an email? Better yet, run a bit of traffic and let our users tell you if your campaigns work out not

If this your first one? If so, we definitely need to talk so I can make sure your first few steps are headed in the right direction.

Quote:

Originally Posted by BAKO

I'm in interested email [email protected]

Email will be sent after this msg

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

POF has an affiliate program? Hit me up if thats true.

[email protected]

Unfortunately not, sorry!

Thanks for the welcome messages guys! I'll try my best to add some value to this forum.

Cheers!

Balsamo · 01-30-2012, 05:56 PM

Welcome Ben

Zuzana Designs · 01-30-2012, 08:42 PM

Welcome to GFY Ben.

The Heron · 01-30-2012, 08:52 PM

I got laid with zoosk and that's a real pos scammy website. stupid girls

brentbacardi · 01-30-2012, 09:39 PM

Welcome and Go Fuck Yourself!

You should make the site more friendly towards couples, me and my girlfriend try to get pussy on POF but its annoying because couples usually list themselves as girls (just like we are) but then we message girls we like and they end up being couples, we cant always tell since their is no couple option.

Just a suggestion!

Hawkins · 01-31-2012, 03:11 AM

Welcome to GFY

BTW why do you had so crazy captcha?

LeRoy · 01-31-2012, 03:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Heron

How come I can't get laid on pof?!

You should use the chat function ;)

Like shooting fish in a barrel

O MARINA · 02-01-2012, 09:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Heron

How come I can't get laid on pof?!

This post is useless without pics.

2ndxachrm · 02-01-2012, 05:37 PM

Welcome to the board Ben!

Jman · 02-02-2012, 07:10 AM

Hi Ben, hit me up [email protected] I'd like to talk to you about something when you got some time.

jspot · 02-02-2012, 07:12 PM

I just started my site a few weeks ago I am still finishing the design and pricing. I am interested in advertising on POF I am very new to this so I will need a breakdown in real terms how it works.

Theo · 02-03-2012, 01:32 AM

Welcome Ben, great to have you here.

BenPOF · 02-03-2012, 02:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jspot

I just started my site a few weeks ago I am still finishing the design and pricing. I am interested in advertising on POF I am very new to this so I will need a breakdown in real terms how it works.

Sure, let's talk once everything is finished on your site and you're ready to promote. We are a mainstream site so we don't allow the advertising of adult sites so I hope you aren't making an adult one!

Quote:

Originally Posted by AVN Theo

Welcome Ben, great to have you here.

Cheers man, thanks!

LazyMoe · 02-04-2012, 01:21 PM

I am not sure if anyone should run an adult campaign on POF.
I've had one that was doing good and my account was close.

The fun thing I found someone else running my ad and lander
still today?

So,be worried on Ben and his offer too help you

igio · 02-05-2012, 09:43 AM

I thought POF did not allow adult.

Ben if this is not the case drop me a line: [email protected]

BenPOF · 02-07-2012, 05:29 PM

We don't allow adult on POF. However, if there are any guys who are looking to crossover into mainstream (non-adult) I'm here to help. Hence why this is posted in the mainstream section of the forum

Vendzilla · 02-24-2012, 03:28 PM

Hey Ben, thanx for all the fun I had on POF!

Hit me up please here I have something I would like to get on POF

Spunky · 02-25-2012, 09:10 PM

Welcome to the board

ErectMedia · 02-26-2012, 05:13 PM

Would be interested in hearing...

ad formats available
ad types CPC, CPM etc...
geo targeting?
and the lowest amount I could start with to test it out as I have a few mainstream sites currently with more in the works.

admin@(gfyusername).com

beks001 · 02-26-2012, 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BenPOF

Hey guys,

Just wanted to come on here to see if I could help any of you adult guys expand your business into mainstream

Not gonna throw up a pitch on here cuz I hate that shit too! I've been at POF for well over 2 years now and am considered the absolute authority on all things related to advertising on POF. Marina over at sexsearch.com suggested I come hang out so here I am!

My advertising blog is here (includes GANGSTER information/case studies/tips): blog.ads.pof.com - all content here is free for you to check out.

Mostly, I'm just looking forward to meeting with y'all and making some new people from a different side of the industry. If there is any interest in advertising with us, I'll post some info but not if it's uninvited. The site I am trying to send to is a social network site. It's completely non adult.

Oh and welcome to the board!

Cheers,

Ben

I've tried to buy advertising on POF using the least adult related ad as possible and it gets rejected every single time. The only ads of mine that have been approved haven't done well. If you have some suggestions I'd love to discuss things to get things working so I can do a big buy.

1-800-313-WETT · 02-27-2012, 12:09 PM

Even our free video chat was rejected so I am not sure what you are offering here.

Vendzilla · 02-27-2012, 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 1-800-313-WETT

Even our free video chat was rejected so I am not sure what you are offering here.

You do know this is the mainstream forum right?

iwantchixx · 02-27-2012, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BenPOF

Hey guys,

Just wanted to come on here to see if I could help any of you adult guys expand your business into mainstream

Not gonna throw up a pitch on here cuz I hate that shit too! I've been at POF for well over 2 years now and am considered the absolute authority on all things related to advertising on POF. Marina over at sexsearch.com suggested I come hang out so here I am!

My advertising blog is here (includes GANGSTER information/case studies/tips): blog.ads.pof.com - all content here is free for you to check out.

Mostly, I'm just looking forward to meeting with y'all and making some new people from a different side of the industry. If there is any interest in advertising with us, I'll post some info but not if it's uninvited.

Cheers,

Ben

I met my lady on POF

and many many others for "one timers" haha. She was supposed to be one but I kept her. 2 kids later....

iwantchixx · 02-27-2012, 09:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by brentbacardi

Welcome and Go Fuck Yourself!

You should make the site more friendly towards couples, me and my girlfriend try to get pussy on POF but its annoying because couples usually list themselves as girls (just like we are) but then we message girls we like and they end up being couples, we cant always tell since their is no couple option.

Just a suggestion!

Whole heartedly agree with this person!

BenPOF · 02-29-2012, 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vendzilla

Hey Ben, thanx for all the fun I had on POF!

Hit me up please here I have something I would like to get on POF

Done!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spunky

Welcome to the board

Thanks Spunky!

Quote:

Originally Posted by ErectMedia

Would be interested in hearing...

ad formats available
ad types CPC, CPM etc...
geo targeting?
and the lowest amount I could start with to test it out as I have a few mainstream sites currently with more in the works.

admin@(gfyusername).com

$25 deposit gets you 110x80 text ads (like Facebook style) and 310x110 small banners. $1000 deposit gets you 300x250, 160x600 and 728x90 banners.

CPM traffic.

Targeting capabilities:
Country
State/Province
Zip Code
Age
Gender
Education
Body Type
Ethnicity
Parental Status
Smoking Status
Drinking Status
Car Status
Religion
Search type (long term, friends etc)
Income
Job

.. just to name a few!

$25 is the minimum deposit.

Quote:

Originally Posted by iwantchixx

Whole heartedly agree with this person!

I'm sure you can find other sites that cater to your guy's situation haha maybe ask someone here for their affiliate link so they can make $5 while you're at it ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by beks001

I've tried to buy advertising on POF using the least adult related ad as possible and it gets rejected every single time. The only ads of mine that have been approved haven't done well. If you have some suggestions I'd love to discuss things to get things working so I can do a big buy.

Hmm I can look into it and give you some suggestions but I'd rather not out your campaigns on a forum full of your potential competitors LOL email me and we'll hash it out.

kb24 · 02-29-2012, 09:47 PM

Ben how can I contact you? I would like to talk to you about promoting adult on POF.. thanks you can PM me..

picXX · 03-01-2012, 06:34 PM

Hi, how's your voice against cupid media, wich is growing quite big on you guys

paffg · 03-06-2012, 02:20 PM

free and too many users to get an affiliate program.

BenPOF · 03-16-2012, 03:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kb24

Ben how can I contact you? I would like to talk to you about promoting adult on POF.. thanks you can PM me..

No can do man, that's why I'm posting in the mainstream section

Quote:

Originally Posted by picXX

Hi, how's your voice against cupid media, wich is growing quite big on you guys

We don't view paid dating sites as competition. We exist in a mutually beneficial ecosystem

They buy our traffic to convert users to paid and we get our traffic sold. It's a pretty sweet deal.

Quote:

Originally Posted by paffg

free and too many users to get an affiliate program.

More like, not enough man power/time in the day to monitor an affiliate program :P

NetHorse · 03-17-2012, 01:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BenPOF

$25 deposit gets you 110x80 text ads (like Facebook style) and 310x110 small banners. $1000 deposit gets you 300x250, 160x600 and 728x90 banners.

CPM traffic.

Targeting capabilities:
Country
State/Province
Zip Code
Age
Gender
Education
Body Type
Ethnicity
Parental Status
Smoking Status
Drinking Status
Car Status
Religion
Search type (long term, friends etc)
Income
Job

.. just to name a few!

$25 is the minimum deposit.

I'm sure you can find other sites that cater to your guy's situation haha maybe ask someone here for their affiliate link so they can make $5 while you're at it ;)

Hmm I can look into it and give you some suggestions but I'd rather not out your campaigns on a forum full of your potential competitors LOL email me and we'll hash it out.

Not bad at all.

What kind of tracking system do you use?

Shoot me an email.

bizjunkie [ a t ] consultant.com

Thanks!

O MARINA · 03-19-2012, 03:03 PM

Hi NetHorse
I sent you an email

sizz · 03-19-2012, 10:18 PM

Ben do you take adult novelty on pof?

BenPOF · 03-22-2012, 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sizz

Ben do you take adult novelty on pof?

Unfortunately not

1-800-313-WETT · 03-23-2012, 01:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BenPOF

We don't allow adult on POF. However, if there are any guys who are looking to crossover into mainstream (non-adult) I'm here to help. Hence why this is posted in the mainstream section of the forum

GFY is for Adult Webmasters - that is why it is called Adult Webmaster Forum, can I go to POF and solicite adult webmasters?

kb24 · 03-26-2012, 02:36 PM

Ben How does relationship (get ex back) and make money online products do on POF? Can we direct link to merchant page?

BenPOF · 03-27-2012, 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kb24

Ben How does relationship (get ex back) and make money online products do on POF? Can we direct link to merchant page?

You're better off with a product that teaches guys how to get more girls. Getting ex back products don't do as well.

Make money online products have worked in the past, from what I've heard from other affiliates, all the "good" ones are now dead. But the vertical does have potential if you have a good offer.

Yes you can direct link

Quote:

Originally Posted by 1-800-313-WETT

GFY is for Adult Webmasters - that is why it is called Adult Webmaster Forum, can I go to POF and solicite adult webmasters?

If we had a section that was labeled "Adult Business Discussions", sure. I believe I'm in the right section as I'm discussing mainstream business in the "mainstream business discussion" section :P Otherwise, there wouldn't need to be a distinct section for this purpose if everyone on GFY was adult.

michael.kickass · 03-30-2012, 12:58 PM

Welcome to GFY!

travs · 04-03-2012, 01:03 AM

hi Ben and welcome to GFY

acctman · 04-06-2012, 09:06 AM

Hi Ben, I have a mainstream project that I could use your advice on patrick_v..at..live.com

Ordo · 04-09-2012, 07:25 AM

Why are 99 out of 100 profiles on POF fake?
Scared my wife and I off the site and we were paying members.

BenPOF · 04-09-2012, 04:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ordo

Why are 99 out of 100 profiles on POF fake?
Scared my wife and I off the site and we were paying members.

Were you going after hot chics who were looking to get down with couples? Probably one of your fellow advertisers trying to sling lead gen to their site LOL

01-27-2012, 10:26 AM	#1
BenPOF Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 14	Greetings from PlentyOfFish.com! Hey guys, Just wanted to come on here to see if I could help any of you adult guys expand your business into mainstream Not gonna throw up a pitch on here cuz I hate that shit too! I've been at POF for well over 2 years now and am considered the absolute authority on all things related to advertising on POF. Marina over at sexsearch.com suggested I come hang out so here I am! My advertising blog is here (includes GANGSTER information/case studies/tips): blog.ads.pof.com - all content here is free for you to check out. Mostly, I'm just looking forward to meeting with y'all and making some new people from a different side of the industry. If there is any interest in advertising with us, I'll post some info but not if it's uninvited. Cheers, Ben

01-27-2012, 10:32 AM	#2
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01-28-2012, 08:38 PM	#4
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brentbacardi Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,425	Welcome and Go Fuck Yourself! You should make the site more friendly towards couples, me and my girlfriend try to get pussy on POF but its annoying because couples usually list themselves as girls (just like we are) but then we message girls we like and they end up being couples, we cant always tell since their is no couple option. Just a suggestion! __________________ Go Fuck Yourself!

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jspot Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1	I just started my site a few weeks ago I am still finishing the design and pricing. I am interested in advertising on POF I am very new to this so I will need a breakdown in real terms how it works.

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02-04-2012, 01:21 PM	#23
LazyMoe Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 8	I am not sure if anyone should run an adult campaign on POF. I've had one that was doing good and my account was close. The fun thing I found someone else running my ad and lander still today? So,be worried on Ben and his offer too help you

02-05-2012, 09:43 AM	#24
igio Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 56	I thought POF did not allow adult. Ben if this is not the case drop me a line: [email protected]

02-07-2012, 05:29 PM	#25
BenPOF Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 14	We don't allow adult on POF. However, if there are any guys who are looking to crossover into mainstream (non-adult) I'm here to help. Hence why this is posted in the mainstream section of the forum

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kb24 Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 108	Ben how can I contact you? I would like to talk to you about promoting adult on POF.. thanks you can PM me..

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