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Rochard · 04-20-2012, 02:31 PM

My friend is having a bad day. It's his 50th birthday today, his wife has filed for divorce, they just went through a bankruptcy, and his house was sold out from under him and has until the end of the month to move out.

That's got to suck.

BlackCrayon · 04-20-2012, 02:43 PM

damn women always run away when shit gets bad.

tical · 04-20-2012, 02:59 PM

Let's hope he wins the lottery the day after they finalize everything.

Sharky · 04-20-2012, 03:00 PM

damn that sucks. But it's true.. Money is the 2nd most popular cause of divorce....

Marriage is the Leading cause of divorce!

Markul · 04-20-2012, 03:26 PM

Yea divorce sucks... Mine cost me well over 100K. Fucking hate HATE my xwife.

~Ray · 04-20-2012, 03:29 PM

suicide watch

Tim · 04-20-2012, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by tical

Let's hope he wins the lottery the day after they finalize everything.

L-Pink · 04-20-2012, 03:33 PM

On the bright side she gets half of zero.

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TheLegacy · 04-20-2012, 03:44 PM

One thing I have learned - stick with it and things will get better. He'll look back at this as hell - but necessary for a better life.

baddog · 04-20-2012, 04:50 PM

Divorce does NOT suck, there may be unpleasantness along the way, but I highly recommend it. Small price to pay.

Spunky · 04-20-2012, 04:52 PM

Damn she devils always kicking you when you're down

RyuLion · 04-20-2012, 04:54 PM

There are people that have been homeless for 10+ years..
Trolls that have lived with their parents 10+ after 18..
There are people worst of..

ilnjscb · 04-20-2012, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink

On the bright side she gets half of zero.

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If only that were true. Lots of guys in jail because they can't find a job. If the judge says he owes her money, he owes whether he has it or not. Totally fucked up. I have a friend who just went through this. Judge told him to borrow money from his family or go to jail for the weekend. He could have fought it, but he'd still have had to to the weekend in jail.

DWB · 04-20-2012, 05:17 PM

50 years old, divorced, down and out... put him on a plane to either the Philippines or Thailand.

96ukssob · 04-20-2012, 06:33 PM

This day and age, your a fucking moron if you don't get a prenup... Unless your spouse makes more money and has more possessions

So many people I know got literally screwed by their spouse, more times its the woman who fucks over the man. I wouldn't even consider getting married without one. Sometimes things don't work out but I'll be damned if I have to give up half my shit I busted my ass for to some bitch

Lykos · 04-20-2012, 11:57 PM

That sucks big time

kane · 04-21-2012, 12:28 AM

Just let him know it gets better.

A friend of mine who is 44 got divorced 2 years ago. He had been miserable in his marriage for several years and was miserable with the divorce. They didn't do a bankruptcy, but he got stuck with all the debt and a house that he had to shortsell. He was depressed and hating life. Six months later he ends up meeting his old high school girlfriend on Facebook. Back in high school they broke up because her family moved away and he hadn't really seen or spoken to her since. She had recently gotten divorced as well. The two of them met for lunch, the flame was still there and now he is married to her and happier than I can ever remember seeing him

VenusBlogger · 04-21-2012, 01:11 AM

Divorce is not the problem.

MARRIAGE is.

Why marry someone when you already know that soon or late you will DIVORCE?

In this current world its mpossible to stay with the same person for life.

I can never understand why people MARRY when they already know the end.

Period.

Buff · 04-21-2012, 02:57 AM

People simply don't do a good job of vetting their partners; and, they marry for the wrong reasons. The epidemic of divorce in America is a clear manifestation of the bad judgment so many people have.

And you can say whatever you want about "but people change" and all that shit, but the truth is a tiger can't change his stripes. The other person didn't change -- you just didn't accurately access the person in the first place.

I looked for several qualities before I chose my life partner: she had to be pretty, smart, have healthful habits, make sound judgments, not be a frivolous spender, have a good sense of humor and love to play, react well under pressure and stress and in crisis situations, be attentive to me and my needs.

I did a good job vetting, and we've been together 9 years now, have a 4-year-old, and often still feel like it's a new, fun relationship.

BladeZ · 04-21-2012, 03:07 AM

If kids are involved it always sucks

Theodora · 04-21-2012, 03:29 AM

Marriage sucks

Divorce is ok

Hope he will be fine

ottopottomouse · 04-21-2012, 04:30 AM

She married his wallet not him.

u-Bob · 04-21-2012, 05:12 AM

He's lucky he doesn't live in this corner of the glorious EU. The regional gov introduced a new "divorce tax" (unofficially known as the "misery tax"). The official explanation is they want to "encourage a warm and social society" and thus discourage people from getting a divorce. Result: if you sell your house so you can divide the money between you and your soon to be ex, you end up paying twice the amount of taxes you normally would when selling property.

Herb Kornfield · 04-21-2012, 05:31 AM

One thing that I have learned while dealing with my own divorce .. Never again will I get married to anyone.

Waiter · 04-21-2012, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Herb Kornfield

One thing that I have learned while dealing with my own divorce .. Never again will I get married to anyone.

here is a huge divorce bumpage for ya

my man

stay cool , no love - no problems

jay23 · 04-21-2012, 05:55 AM

Will you stay on an unhappy marriage just so the kids can have both parents at home ?

barcodes · 04-21-2012, 06:14 AM

shimmy2 · 04-21-2012, 06:29 AM

he sounds like a future 3rd world POV pornographer

slapass · 04-21-2012, 06:34 AM

Just tell him, if he thinks this is bad. He should imagine if he was still stuck with her.

Rochard · 04-21-2012, 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kane

Just let him know it gets better.

A friend of mine who is 44 got divorced 2 years ago. He had been miserable in his marriage for several years and was miserable with the divorce. They didn't do a bankruptcy, but he got stuck with all the debt and a house that he had to shortsell. He was depressed and hating life. Six months later he ends up meeting his old high school girlfriend on Facebook. Back in high school they broke up because her family moved away and he hadn't really seen or spoken to her since. She had recently gotten divorced as well. The two of them met for lunch, the flame was still there and now he is married to her and happier than I can ever remember seeing him

So there is hope.

Good story.

Rochard · 04-21-2012, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by VenusBlogger

Why marry someone when you already know that soon or late you will DIVORCE?

I know some people that have been married three or four times. Yet others remain married to one person all of their lives. Not all marriages end in divorce.

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Originally Posted by Buff

And you can say whatever you want about "but people change" and all that shit, but the truth is a tiger can't change his stripes. The other person didn't change -- you just didn't accurately access the person in the first place.

People do change - in huge ways. I've been with my wife for twenty years and I look at the changes we've been through, and it's staggering. Both physical and mentally. In our relationship, my wife has become less adventurous while I've become a lot more adventurous. I was always "We shouldn't do this" or "It doesn't sound fun" where as now I'm the who pops the curb and drives through a field to get around traffic just because I can.

Rochard · 04-21-2012, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by ottopottomouse

She married his wallet not him.

He never made that much money to begin with.

But I can see why he married her. She was hot - and still is for her age.

digitalfantasies · 04-21-2012, 11:31 AM

divorce??? hahaha it could have been cancer buddy...

https://youtube.com/watch?v=wALbxbEBLU0

Dirty D · 04-23-2012, 07:27 AM

He needs to celebrate with two girls... each half his age.
That will make him see life in a new light.

Evil Chris · 04-23-2012, 07:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dirty D

He needs to celebrate with two girls... each half his age.
That will make him see life in a new light.

femdomdestiny · 04-23-2012, 08:13 AM

why people are getting married at all?

DamianJ · 04-23-2012, 08:14 AM

Divorce is expensive. Freedom is priceless.

Rochard · 04-23-2012, 08:28 AM

To make matters worse, the wife's father just died. So if the kids aren't upset enough about mommy and daddy splitting up PLUS having to move out of their house... Now they have to go to a funeral too.

When it rains it pours.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dirty D

He needs to celebrate with two girls... each half his age.
That will make him see life in a new light.

That's what I'm saying. To help cover his moving expenses (deposit on a new rental, etc) he took out $20k from his 401k. I'm trying to talk him into going to Vegas.

seeandsee · 04-23-2012, 08:37 AM

I will never get in that shit, if bitch want to be with me, we dont need to make all "legal" and then later she fuck my best friend and take 50%

Three.Thousand · 04-23-2012, 09:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dirty D

He needs to celebrate with two girls... each half his age.
That will make him see life in a new light.

Exactly, he is finally free. its party time!

Jel · 04-23-2012, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Herb Kornfield

One thing that I have learned while dealing with my own divorce .. Never again will I get married to anyone.

A-fucking-men.

Honez · 04-23-2012, 10:37 AM

Looks like he just got a clean slate. No financial obligations, no nagging wife and ya know 50 is the 30 ;)

BlackCrayon · 04-23-2012, 10:47 AM

get real you guys. this guy is 50, probably totally out of shape and broke. the only women he is going to get is late 40 somethings all worn out with multiple kids, unless he can afford to buy prostitutes.

KillerK · 04-23-2012, 11:00 AM

Someone explain why it takes 6 months to get divorced but you can get married in hours.

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Markul Likes Pie Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: The land that liberated porn Posts: 12,401	Yea divorce sucks... Mine cost me well over 100K. Fucking hate HATE my xwife.

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kane Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: portland, OR Posts: 20,684	Just let him know it gets better. A friend of mine who is 44 got divorced 2 years ago. He had been miserable in his marriage for several years and was miserable with the divorce. They didn't do a bankruptcy, but he got stuck with all the debt and a house that he had to shortsell. He was depressed and hating life. Six months later he ends up meeting his old high school girlfriend on Facebook. Back in high school they broke up because her family moved away and he hadn't really seen or spoken to her since. She had recently gotten divorced as well. The two of them met for lunch, the flame was still there and now he is married to her and happier than I can ever remember seeing him

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VenusBlogger So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 1,540	Divorce is not the problem. MARRIAGE is. Why marry someone when you already know that soon or late you will DIVORCE? In this current world its mpossible to stay with the same person for life. I can never understand why people MARRY when they already know the end. Period.

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Buff GFY Assassin Industry Role: Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 2,993	People simply don't do a good job of vetting their partners; and, they marry for the wrong reasons. The epidemic of divorce in America is a clear manifestation of the bad judgment so many people have. And you can say whatever you want about "but people change" and all that shit, but the truth is a tiger can't change his stripes. The other person didn't change -- you just didn't accurately access the person in the first place. I looked for several qualities before I chose my life partner: she had to be pretty, smart, have healthful habits, make sound judgments, not be a frivolous spender, have a good sense of humor and love to play, react well under pressure and stress and in crisis situations, be attentive to me and my needs. I did a good job vetting, and we've been together 9 years now, have a 4-year-old, and often still feel like it's a new, fun relationship.

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BladeZ So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 272	If kids are involved it always sucks

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