Tip for dating a single mom:

[CaptainHowdy]

- Don't.

[Scott McD]

Date - No

Fuck - Yes

[Spunky]

Did the kid call you daddy the first time you met?

[Naughty]

I'm a single dad, no woman should date me either.
I never have time. I'm dying for some me-time as soon as my kid IS away for a few hours. I never get to do spontanious things anymore (for now). It basicly sucks, other than having your own kid is cool ;-).

All single parents i know either drink, smoke or have other addictions, lol.

[- Jesus Christ -]

...so much for clicking this thread to reply "don't".

[NemesisEnforcer]

Originally Posted by Scott McD

Date - No

Fuck - Yes

Fuck - No: if you get her pregnant, you know she will keep the kid.

[JFK]

Originally Posted by NemesisEnforcer

Fuck - No: if you get her pregnant, you know she will keep the kid.

Sounds very plausable

[mavruda]

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

- Don't.

Complications ...

[Roald]

Not convinced. Have you seen some of those moms?!? Hot, sexually great and if you are lucky you catch a smart one ;)))

[L-Pink]

I'm sure there are exceptions to the "don't" rule but I've never run across a single mom that the parting of ways wasn't directly attributed to her demon offspring.

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[O MARINA]

When I log into Facebook I get ads for "Give single dads a chance".

I hope you get the same ones for single moms

[Sportwizz]

I say you try em.

[raymor]

My first thought was "don't". Actually I had a little more specific pair of rules:

Don't date moms with screwed up kids.

Don't date fucked up moms. If they treat their kid poorly, they'll treat you poorly, and the kid will be screwed up if they aren't already.

[myjah]

Originally Posted by raymor

Don't date fucked up moms. If they treat their kid poorly, they'll treat you poorly, and the kid will be screwed up if they aren't already.

This - thank you!

If she is a great catch, the children won't be the problem. Besides, why would you walk away from the right woman just because the situation is a bit complicated? Weirdos.

[ilnjscb]

Originally Posted by myjah

This - thank you!

If she is a great catch, the children won't be the problem. Besides, why would you walk away from the right woman just because the situation is a bit complicated? Weirdos.

In new york the new thing is single dads. Every female I know is or has done it. Like 5% of them have the kids full time so that isn't an issue, and she can see how good he is with kids. Plus they got the mickey kicked out of them so they're not as arrogant as the preening metro buggers we are so plagued with.

[TheSquealer]

Originally Posted by Roald

Not convinced. Have you seen some of those moms?!? Hot, sexually great and if you are lucky you catch a smart one ;)))

Agreed. Also, i've found that once a woman has been pissed on, shit on and puked on - pretty much anything goes in the bedroom.

[tabasco]

hit it, then quit it

[GAMEFINEST]

just enjoy some milf pussy while you pass by

[Pandoras]

sex with no emotions

[EddyTheDog]

Being the child of a single mum I can tell you that keep the kid happy and you will make your life much easier - Cash helps a lot - Don't try and fight the kid, you will lose....

My mother never saw anyone more than once without my approval - She didn't know it, but I had it down to an art...

[johnnyloadproductions]

I don't like the baby's daddy drama. Sometimes it's not much of a deal.

I liked the daughter I made out with and then I fucked the mom. The daughter came home super drunk when I was screwing the mom and yelled for us to "shut the fuck up!" We both laughed very hard.

[AllAboutCams]

my dad remarried a woman with 3 kids that he hates (i mean really hates)

[Naughty]

Originally Posted by xxxupdate

my dad remarried a woman with 3 kids that he hates (i mean really hates)

If he remarried her, does he hate you?

[blonda80]

what is wrong with single moms?

[Mr Pheer]

Originally Posted by blonda80

what is wrong with single moms?

The damn kids is whats wrong. Please try to keep up.

[seeandsee]

Fuck them but be careful or you will be dad anytime soon, they just love kids :D

[mce]

Originally Posted by tabasco

hit it, then quit it

Exactly in that order.

[eroticsexxx]

Originally Posted by myjah

If she is a great catch, the children won't be the problem. Besides, why would you walk away from the right woman just because the situation is a bit complicated? Weirdos.

If she is such a great catch, then why is she single?

[myjah]

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

If she is such a great catch, then why is she single?

Fucking dumb ass reply

[CamTraffic]

I like moms!

[BlackCrayon]

single moms make bad choices..thats why they're single. don't be their next bad choice!

[CaptainHowdy]

Lots of motherfuckers on this forum, good to know ...

[candyflip]

I've had bad luck dating single moms.

You're always going to be playing second fiddle to her kids, and rightfully so...if she's a good mom.

[O MARINA]

Originally Posted by xxxupdate

my dad remarried a woman with 3 kids that he hates (i mean really hates)

He hates her kids? why

[eroticsexxx]

Originally Posted by myjah

Fucking dumb ass reply

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

[Tijuana_Tom]

Tip for dating a single mom?

It depends on a lot of factors.

Typically I can't see why any guy would get involved with a mother. You have to deal with the kid, the mother's family, the father, the father's family.

And what if the babysitter is ugly?

[myjah]

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

It was a 'dumb ass' reply because of exactly what you said here: "Not saying that it's her fault". She can be the best catch ever and be single due to no 'fault' of her own.

[eroticsexxx]

Originally Posted by myjah

It was a 'dumb ass' reply because of exactly what you said here: "Not saying that it's her fault". She can be the best catch ever and be single due to no 'fault' of her own.

Unfortunately you clearly took my reply as an end-all-be-all statement when in fact there was a huge question mark at the end of it.

Nevertheless, every man worth his salt should ask himself that question when dealing with a single mom.

[CaptainHowdy]

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

That sounds like a well-informed opinion...

[TheLegacy]

Amazing how we group them all together. There are single mothers out there that would be great GF's etc. We tend to forget they may be single for other reasons than being a bitch.

Best rule of thumb if you're going to date is NOT to meet the kids until you're actually serious about being with her longer. You don't want to have a connection or feelings develop then if you leave it hurts the kids.

Any relationship deserves a chance to grow and hard to do that with kids around - so date - learn about her - watch how she talks about her ex and everything to know what she's about. It can work... and has.

[digitalfantasies]

well you guys obviously haven't been to south America a lot.. because there EVERY girl is a single mom... what to do now?

[The Porn Nerd]

Stay AWAY people - everyone needs love but not that bad. :D

[Roald]

Originally Posted by TheLegacy

Amazing how we group them all together. There are single mothers out there that would be great GF's etc. We tend to forget they may be single for other reasons than being a bitch.

Best rule of thumb if you're going to date is NOT to meet the kids until you're actually serious about being with her longer. You don't want to have a connection or feelings develop then if you leave it hurts the kids.

Any relationship deserves a chance to grow and hard to do that with kids around - so date - learn about her - watch how she talks about her ex and everything to know what she's about. It can work... and has.

stop making sense.

[digitalfantasies]

Originally Posted by Roald

stop making sense.

I totally agree, he should stop that right now and start posting cripple midget porn... what's wrong with him?

[myjah]

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

Unfortunately you clearly took my reply as an end-all-be-all statement when in fact there was a huge question mark at the end of it.

Nevertheless, every man worth his salt should ask himself that question when dealing with a single mom.

Then next time put a HUGE question mark at the end of it.

[Sly]

Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

It's a harsh reply, but definitely not a "dumb ass" one.

In response I would say that any man who gets seriously involved with a single mother without finding out why her ex left (or why she left her ex) is a dumb ass.

If one was to take into account the fact that there always may be another man in the picture, as well as a kid or two who may never see you as their "real" dad, it's a pretty smart move to be wary of single moms.

Barring the possibility that her ex might have had commitment issues (which still speaks to her decision making skills to have a kid for him), it would be prudent to find out what kind of behavior she exemplified that was bad enough for the ex to not want to stick around for the sake of his kid. Not saying that it's her fault, but dating a single mom is serious business

Following along? Shouldn't every guy be doing this with every girl then? Mother or not. Everyone gets dumped. Everyone has an ex.

Odds are good that the reasons a mother might be single are the same as any other woman in existence.

[TheLegacy]

Originally Posted by Roald

stop making sense.

That actually made me spit my coffee.

[digitalfantasies]

Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ

They're desperate, as some losers will see an opportunity to exploit another in a weak position.

If you're between 18-35, more then enough (no kid) women around. I rarely ran the risk of fucking a single moms and the few I did, ended up always wanting more then just a dick in them.

I was just straight-up with them. You can't possibly expect me to put you first in my life, and me second or third, depending on the amount of kids, and then pay for it? Fuck that, not only is that a suckers bet, I respect myself way too much for that.

My wife was in her 30's when we met as she focused on he education and family business first. She mentioned, no kids, and she wanted a rock solid relationship first, see the world first, and own a home. I couldn't get a ring on her finger fast enough.

Well, 6.5 years later, we own our home, been to more places in this world then I even care to remember, dynamite on/off-line businesses, as we just laugh when friends (with kids) ask, were you going this time?

The cool thing about not having kids is your disposable income, the pure silence, and being able to get up and do whatever you want, when you want. Simply, the amount of free time you have.

So much so I took a passion of mine, commercial fishing, and started a very small seasonal business from money selling a gun collection. Anyway, I eventuality purchased the processing equipment to eliminate a middleman, and grew tired of dealing with moody commercial fishermen. So I learned where/how and actually designed a boat for a specific type of fishing.

This is the first as the other 2 will be done by the season. My goal will be 8 as they're is a ton of knowledgeable labor here who just can't afford their own boats and get shit on as hired labor. After equipment deductions etc. My profit will be almost 50% more then my competitor. Also, it a fucking blast to do all this.





The moral of this story that I was going to blog about anyway? NEVER date/marry a single mom, unless your single with kids, your time and money should not fund others bad decision making. It's your life, make the most of what you got.

No the moral of this story is that you should follow your dream, and if their are kids involved in that dream, there might be nothing wrong with a single mom

[ChandieGirl]

Originally Posted by seeandsee

Fuck them but be careful or you will be dad anytime soon, they just love kids :D

Not if they have teenagers. Game changer.

But then again, if they have teenagers, they are virtually un-dateable. Demon children.

This is a no-win situation.

[Rochard]

I have number of divorced and single things and they all complain about the same thing - lack of sex. Single women need to become whores and put out constantly if they want to interest a man.