Dating while broke.

[SmutGiant]

Things aren't what they used to be financially for a lot of us here, especially for those of us who never had or cared for a "backup plan".

So what is a guy to do who is basically unemployable in "the real world" and whose future is based on nothing more than a gamble on the "next big thing"?

Dating takes time and money. What?s a hard-working, single man to do?

"The problem is this nagging self-doubt given my current station in life. I am a handsome guy, athletic, intelligent; not always great at meeting women because I get a little nervous and perhaps somewhat fearful of rejection. That aside, I feel like if I asked a girl out to dinner or something, talking about myself would be really painful having to disclose the various aspects of my situation. As a result, I have totally dismissed any prospect of meeting someone until my life is in a more presentable state of affairs, which stinks because I would really like to be enjoying someone else's company."

http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/rela...e_and_liv.html

if a man?s finances aren?t in order, he isn?t in a position to really date.
http://mydatinghangovers.com/?p=1383



So, should a broski even bother?

Discuss.

[xNetworx]

If you are over 22, wait until you have some money.

[Supz]

just make sure the chic you are dating is broke too. enjoy the struggle together.

[DatePoster]

Originally Posted by Supz

just make sure the chic you are dating is broke too. enjoy the struggle together.

[geedub]

Originally Posted by CamBoss

If you are over 22, wait until you have some money.

Solid advice.

[Rochard]

I have a friend of mine... Who recently lost his job and his girlfriend of six years drop kicked him. He spends his time bitching about life on Facebook, and getting his cock sucked off for some glory hole site.

So instead of being broke and trying to date, he's getting sucked and fucked and getting paid for it.

[seeandsee]

Originally Posted by Rochard

So instead of being broke and trying to date, he's getting sucked and fucked and getting paid for it.

Better he is fucked just by GF

[xNetworx]

Originally Posted by Rochard

I have a friend of mine... Who recently lost his job and his girlfriend of six years drop kicked him. He spends his time bitching about life on Facebook, and getting his cock sucked off for some glory hole site.

So instead of being broke and trying to date, he's getting sucked and fucked and getting paid for it.

Actually, that sounds pretty fucking depressing

[J. Falcon]

Originally Posted by CamBoss

Actually, that sounds pretty fucking depressing

Yes, yes it does.

[SmutGiant]

Originally Posted by CamBoss

If you are over 22, wait until you have some money.

Yeah I figured. Not something you can fake for long... "yeah let's get together next month , I'm busy right now"... stalling & buying time while trying to figure things out gets stressful and probably the reason for my anxiety attack last date knowing there was no way I was going to be able to sustain expectations.

Originally Posted by Supz

just make sure the chic you are dating is broke too. enjoy the struggle together.

I wouldn't call my situation a "struggle". Just not a lot of extra right now to be able to take a chick out more than once or twice a month if I'm lucky.

Originally Posted by Rochard

I have a friend of mine... Who recently lost his job and his girlfriend of six years drop kicked him. He spends his time bitching about life on Facebook, and getting his cock sucked off for some glory hole site.

So instead of being broke and trying to date, he's getting sucked and fucked and getting paid for it.

Damn, that sucks... but hey, at least he's keeping busy

[96ukssob]

that's funny.

as most people will discover, women and dating = money pit.

you need to impress them to get them to put out, so you have to buy them stuff and take them out... but that's just the beginning.. you'll need to keep spending MORE and MORE!

think of it like heroin, you'll just need more and more to catch the first high

HOWEVER, if you are trying to impress a woman with material possessions, you are an idiot

every woman likes to be "swept off her feet" and "find her prince charming" but in realty, they just want someone to hear them talk and not treat them like shit... which requires no money.

[SmutGiant]

Originally Posted by bossku69

they just want someone to hear them talk and not treat them like shit... which requires no money.

They have a term for that. I think its called "the friendzone"

[Antonio]

that's what the $5 hookers are for

[Oracle Porn]

try adultfriendfinder, them bitches just want to fuck.

[Sly]

I'll give you some money. You go find two girls. I get the better looking one.

Now you don't have to date while broke, and I get a girl easy.

Win-win!

[rocky1234]

Originally Posted by Antonio

that's what the $5 hookers are for

where are those?? sounds like my price range.

[SuckOnThis]

Just find some girl thats been abused by past relationships and has very low expectations in life. Plenty of them out there.

[winter_]

Originally Posted by Oracle Porn

try adultfriendfinder, them bitches just want to fuck.

really? i tried some local sites around here before i started getting in to the prostitution game more but just all timewasters. no one was ballsy enough to show up on a site like xvideos, no one.

to the op, you will just have to steal your way through life and use being poor as a whole hearted excuse.

[qwe]

i was just thinking about it, if I was a hot chick why the hell would I want to date broke guy? I could date just as good looking guy that makes decent living... and let's face it, it's a lot harder for a guy to get good looking girl, then for good looking girl to get a guy, not to mention 5% of all women are actually good looking... I have a problem when chicks push it too far and want too much shit from a guy and are gold diggers, but I can't blame girls who want to live comfortably and not struggle through life with loosers...

[_Richard_]

not sure if you just wanna date.. but there is ways around the limited budget

it's not like there is no dating in college..

[dillonaire]

Dillonaire Tip of the day: Dont ask your bankteller out. She knows you are a broke ass MOFO. Try asking the girl out working the counter at McDonalds. she cant make that much and is happy with that lifestyle. And super size your order before you ask her out so she knows you are a McDonalds Baller.

[Rebel D]

Wow Havent heard Smut Giant in a long long time

[TheSquealer]

Originally Posted by _Richard_

not sure if you just wanna date.. but there is ways around the limited budget

it's not like there is no dating in college..

I think he's taking about dating women, not men. Keep searching, surely a thread will pop up where you can dispense your wisdom on truck stop bathrooms, parks after dark and tips on jerking off strange guys as an ice breaker on a budget.

[signupdamnit]

If you're in the U.S. two out of three people are living paycheck to paycheck. Most are broke. Just be honest about the situation and be confident. If you're looking for more than a screw or two it's better that someone is into you rather than your money anyway.

The thing about IM and being self employed is that just as easily as you can lose it all you could be earning $10k more a month by next year if you get lucky and work hard. Many people assume that if you are self employed it automatically means you are filthy rich. Wish that were true but there is a reason that assumption often exists.

Anyway man it holds you back some being broke for sure but I bet 90% of it is you holding yourself back.

[JockoHomo]

Originally Posted by rocky1234

where are those?? sounds like my price range.

That would be Colombia.

[JockoHomo]

Originally Posted by SuckOnThis

Just find some girl thats been abused by past relationships and has very low expectations in life. Plenty of them out there.

2 words for you - Fat Chicks.
IF you can afford McDonald's they will suck your cock for a large order of fries.

[whOaKemosabe]

Originally Posted by JockoHomo

2 words for you - Fat Chicks.
IF you can afford McDonald's they will suck your cock for a large order of fries.

i've slept in a mc d's while homelss showered inb athroom daily

[scuba steve]

don't date and save your money

[J. Falcon]

Jerking off is free.

[_Richard_]

Originally Posted by TheSquealer

I think he's taking about dating women, not men. Keep searching, surely a thread will pop up where you can dispense your wisdom on truck stop bathrooms, parks after dark and tips on jerking off strange guys as an ice breaker on a budget.

the only person talking about dating men is you.

oh god, i just read the rest of what you wrote.. please.. just stop painfully explaining your life unintentionally.

[SuckOnThis]

Originally Posted by JockoHomo

2 words for you - Fat Chicks.
IF you can afford McDonald's they will suck your cock for a large order of fries.

Yep those too. Not a moment I'm to proud of but one time I fucked a fat chick and was driving her home at 3 in the morning and she kept hounding me to buy her some nachos at 7-11. I told her I had no money and she pointed out some change in the console of my car so I pulled into a 7-11, handed her the change, waited until she got inside and drove the fuck away.

[SilentKnight]

Originally Posted by SuckOnThis

Just find some girl thats been abused by past relationships and has very low expectations in life. Plenty of them out there.

We used to call them 'practice girls'.

[SmutGiant]

Originally Posted by Rebel D

Wow Havent heard Smut Giant in a long long time

haha what's up Devin? I'm still around

You seem to be doing well these days

[JenniDahling]

How about an answer from a girl...

Spoken from experience, if a girl really likes you, the money thing shouldn't matter too much. Don't let your financial situation hold you down, ask girls out and be upfront about your situation before they say yes. Not like, "Hey I'm broke, want to date me?" but more like, I'd love to take you out but I don't have a lot to offer besides my good looks and charming personality."

When you find a girl that you want to invest time in, there are a lot of things you can do that won't break the bank. Check out sites like LivingSocial or similar groupon type sites for inexpensive fun. There is also going to the beach, cooking together + movie nights on netflix, and your community may have events that are open to the public. They have live music in the park on Friday evenings here where you can bring your own food, like a picnic.

The biggest question is where will you find these fair maidens?

[L-Pink]

Up your acceptable weight class and have a good time.

[mineistaken]

Originally Posted by qwe

i was just thinking about it, if I was a hot chick why the hell would I want to date broke guy? I could date just as good looking guy that makes decent living... .

Personality is what matters in dating. You can not just find "as good looking guy" ..

[Phoenix]

Just be yourself. Sure you wont get a gold digger, maybe you will.
IF you can impress her with your personality and she is into your look. Then you can fuck her silly. She wont care so much about what car you drive or how many times you can drop big money.

Alternatively, leave for better climates. Move to Bali. You can impress chicks there with almost nothing..lol

[brassmonkey]

your hand is the only lover that will always be there for you.

[Huge]

Date a gamer chick. Hot pockets and Jolt cola all night long.

[SmutGiant]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

IF you can impress her with your personality and she is into your look. Then you can fuck her silly. She wont care so much about what car you drive or how many times you can drop big money.

The problem is if you can only actually get out once in a while they will find someone else, out of sight out of mind. On top of that, being anxious about your situation takes away from any "personality".

Originally Posted by Phoenix

Alternatively, leave for better climates. Move to Bali. You can impress chicks there with almost nothing..lol

I've spent a few years living abroad, you don't need to tell me

I've spent years having women crawling over themselves to get a piece of me, being perceived as a young attractive wealthy foreigner who frequently got mistaken for a soccer star or hollywood actor.

Going back to just being another schmuck in Canada, trying to compete with other schmucks is downright depressing.

I guess there's a time and a place for everything, and I guess this is neither my time nor place.


- P.S. If your client is still looking for an aged domain I'll trade you BabeDesk.com for some of those generic Viagras you got from China

[SmutGiant]

Originally Posted by Phoenix

IF you can impress her with your personality and she is into your look. Then you can fuck her silly. She wont care so much about what car you drive or how many times you can drop big money.

The problem is if you can only actually get out once in a while they will find someone else, out of sight out of mind. On top of that, being anxious about your situation takes away from any "personality".

Originally Posted by Phoenix

Alternatively, leave for better climates. Move to Bali. You can impress chicks there with almost nothing..lol

I've spent a few years living abroad, you don't need to tell me

I've spent years having women crawling over themselves to get a piece of me, being perceived as a young attractive wealthy foreigner who frequently got mistaken for a soccer star or hollywood actor.

Going back to just being another schmuck in Canada, trying to compete with other schmucks is downright depressing.

I guess there's a time and a place for everything, and I guess this is neither my time nor place.


- P.S. If your client is still looking for an aged domain I'll trade you BabeDesk.com for some of those generic Viagras you got from China

[ErectMedia]

I have dated some nice looking women. One was even so hot I was questioning myself like what the hell is she is doing with me. Think humor has pulled a few of them, make em laugh panties drop.

Lot of shit that's free or cheap especially in the summer. I see mad hotties walking, running, bike riding all through downtown Chicago everyday. Join a cheap gym, go to the beach, etc...

Get active out and about to meet them and be honest if financials come up. If she walks away it's better for you as who wants to be with a snotty bitch.

Your biggest obstacle is yourself. I'm depressed I got no money nobody will want me. Fuck that get off your ass get social, chick rejects ya fuck it try again and consider it practice. I'd rather land a good chick when I'm broke cause then ya know when shit improves she's a keeper. Any asshole can pull up to the club with a nice ride and get a handful of skanks, fun for a night but definitely not keepers. If a chicks first question is what kind of car do you drive get up and walk away.

[TumblrPRO]

Women want money...

No money = no women...

Very easy.

[SmutGiant]

Originally Posted by ErectMedia

Your biggest obstacle is yourself.

Dude you are so right.

[- Jesus Christ -]

lol you guys are funny... having money makes young girls put out LESS.

If you have charm they want to fuck you. if you have charm AND money...
they go "oh shit i might not want to lose this guy" and it will be harder to get their pants off.

#RARE

[fogfever]

Originally Posted by - Jesus Christ -

lol you guys are funny... having money makes young girls put out LESS.

If you have charm they want to fuck you. if you have charm AND money...
they go "oh shit i might not want to lose this guy" and it will be harder to get their pants off.

nice analysis

[slapass]

Originally Posted by - Jesus Christ -

lol you guys are funny... having money makes young girls put out LESS.

If you have charm they want to fuck you. if you have charm AND money...
they go "oh shit i might not want to lose this guy" and it will be harder to get their pants off.

Not my experience. Just saying.