Lets Discuss Why Women Don't Watch Porn..

[nexcom28]

So I have been having my Valentines meal with my lovely wife. Scallops followed by Duck L'Orange and the conversation got onto the subject of why women don't watch porn.

These were the bullet points from the conversation

• I would prefer to watch a woman masturbate rather than a couple or a guy
• Teen boys introduce teen girls to porn. A girl would never actively search for it herself
• Discussing the couples we know, we agreed hat we can imagine the men all watch porn given the chance but the women - no way!

Anyway, why do women not search porn. It it inbuilt into their genetic makeup? Is it the way they were raised? - With guys it's all phwoar, get in their son and with girls it's all pretty pink flowers and roses?

[_Richard_]

they do.

[Scott McD]

They do.

They just clear their search history better than you...

[Harmon]

Originally Posted by Scott McD

They just clear their search history better than you...

Like the dinner table

[Cherry7]

They do watch porn its called "romantic comedy"

[deltav]

For the 3rd time, they do.

The problem is, most porn is produced by dudes for dudes. The vast majority it's pretty obvious they have no idea what women enjoy and/or have no interest in presenting it.

Not so say women only like the stereotypical soft-focus and roses kinda "tasteful" material - many do enjoy explicit raw sex - but IMO the standard porno misses the mark by a long shot when it comes to your average woman and what turns her on.

[mikesinner]

Your wife has been brainwashed like most women in modern society. This is done to hide there sexuality as girls become sexually aware about 1 year before boys.

At some point the ruling class realized that the best way to control society was to sexually subdue women.

And this is the reason that modern feminism is pro-sexuality. It is a reaction to the past subjugation of women.

[bluebook18]

Originally Posted by Scott McD

They do.

They just clear their search history better than you...

[Barry-xlovecam]

Girls don't fart either :P

[NEW XTC]

by far the vast majority of women have no craving for hardcore porn - or even visual stimulation of any kind...yet some...well they are wired just like dudes and want it and need it more than any dude - but they are an easy nut and don't need a wide variety or memberships..those are a rare breed - they have more testosterone or do more coke...it's all just chemicals

[media]

My lady watches porn, by herself sometimes, and with me sometimes... Big misconception if you think all women do not watch porn..

[ING82]

Because they're all too busy performing in it

[nexcom28]

Originally Posted by media

My lady watches porn, by herself sometimes, and with me sometimes... Big misconception if you think all women do not watch porn..

Of course some do but I think we would all agree that the vast majority of the population don't.

[_Richard_]

no one seems to be agreeing.. i think you're looking for 'men look at vastly more porn than women', and that is probably a misconception

[kane]

The GF has explained it to me like this. She is a pretty visual person and she likes looking at pictures of good looking guys etc. She even enjoys watching videos of guys jerking off. When it comes to actual porn she likes the more romantic stuff. The stuff where the scenes portray both the guy and the girl having a pleasurable time.

As she puts it, most porn is either about how much jizz can be splattered on a girl, how much you can shove in her holes, how hard you can fuck her or how badly you can degrade her. In many cases the girls simply don't look like they are really enjoying it.

She wants to be able to put herself in the woman's position and feel like she would like what is happening and most porn doesn't allow for that.

To me the bigger question is women paying for porn. More and more women are watching porn, but it seems like very few of them are willing to pay for it.

[Phoenix]

they watch it...just different porn than we do i guess.
Japanese porn?

[TNVeric]

I have actually had quite a few females join my lesbian niche site (TNVGirls.com), the one thing I took from their feedback is that though they were straight, if the scenario for the video was realistic enough, they would be able to identify with the female character (model) in the scene and thus get aroused as if it was happening to them. What makes them different from men IMHO is that they don't check their brains in at the door when it comes to porn. They need to be stimulated mentally and just throwing a pizza guy and a bored housewife on the floor and have them go at it doesn't do much for them.

Of course I don't speak for all females but this is my philosophy..

when it comes to porn and sex, women play chess while men play checkers.

Also they love watching a talented tongue at work!

[Elli]

Originally Posted by kane

The GF has explained it to me like this. She is a pretty visual person and she likes looking at pictures of good looking guys etc. She even enjoys watching videos of guys jerking off. When it comes to actual porn she likes the more romantic stuff. The stuff where the scenes portray both the guy and the girl having a pleasurable time.

As she puts it, most porn is either about how much jizz can be splattered on a girl, how much you can shove in her holes, how hard you can fuck her or how badly you can degrade her. In many cases the girls simply don't look like they are really enjoying it.

She wants to be able to put herself in the woman's position and feel like she would like what is happening and most porn doesn't allow for that.

To me the bigger question is women paying for porn. More and more women are watching porn, but it seems like very few of them are willing to pay for it.

This.

6789

[SomeCreep]

Women dont watch porn because they can get real dick in 2 seconds if they want and for free.

[Struggle4Bucks]

Originally Posted by SomeCreep

Women dont watch porn because they can get real dick in 2 seconds if they want and for free.

I can get a real dick in 2seconds too... for free... but i still watch porn...

That said... i don't like other cocks then mine... maybe that's it!

[babymaker]

I have tons of girls in my xvideos comments, but i sell real extreme interracial creampie, so it has a bigger female following than normal average porn.

[Bourke]

lots of girls watch porn, they just dont tend to watch mainstream porn.

[Magnetron]

They don't watch most porn because most porn is created by men who have little comprehension regarding what women enjoy.

[rogueteens]

most women prefer imagination that's why their porn is mostly in book form (50 shades of grey for example) while men have no imagination and prefer to have their porn visual.

[notinmybackyard]

Originally Posted by nexcom28

So I have been having my Valentines meal with my lovely wife. Scallops followed by Duck L'Orange and the conversation got onto the subject of why women don't watch porn.

These were the bullet points from the conversation

• I would prefer to watch a woman masturbate rather than a couple or a guy
• Teen boys introduce teen girls to porn. A girl would never actively search for it herself
• Discussing the couples we know, we agreed hat we can imagine the men all watch porn given the chance but the women - no way!

Anyway, why do women not search porn. It it inbuilt into their genetic makeup? Is it the way they were raised? - With guys it's all phwoar, get in their son and with girls it's all pretty pink flowers and roses?

Women will buy porn and they tend to be by far more loyal customers than men. However, most women just are not interested in watching the shit that is currently being produced /sold by 99% of the industry.

But hey, I am a fucking nobody wanker so what do I know ?

[GregE]

Originally Posted by kane

The GF has explained it to me like this. She is a pretty visual person and she likes looking at pictures of good looking guys etc. She even enjoys watching videos of guys jerking off. When it comes to actual porn she likes the more romantic stuff. The stuff where the scenes portray both the guy and the girl having a pleasurable time.

As she puts it, most porn is either about how much jizz can be splattered on a girl, how much you can shove in her holes, how hard you can fuck her or how badly you can degrade her. In many cases the girls simply don't look like they are really enjoying it.

She wants to be able to put herself in the woman's position and feel like she would like what is happening and most porn doesn't allow for that.

To me the bigger question is women paying for porn. More and more women are watching porn, but it seems like very few of them are willing to pay for it.

That sounds about right.

After all, straight guys prefer to see a bare minimum of the male performer and all they can of babe. Moreover when they're not looking for the extreme, they're looking for portrayals of idealized perfect (from their perspective) sex with drop dead gorgeous women that are up for anything.

No need for for violins and candlelit scenes here, just reverse the the above referenced dynamics and you'll make the ladies happy.

Also, women enjoy freak shows as much as men and that's why over-the-top extreme content works for a lot of them as well.

Now ... whether the fairer sex is willing to pay to see any of this is an altogether different question

[nexcom28]

I guess my real question would be. Would it ever be possible to make women watch (and spend) as much money on porn as men and how would this be possible (if most women currently don't watch much porn).

[fitzmulti]

They do watch...ask Digital Playground! ;-)

[brassmonkey]

you trying to watch with a family member?

[Beth_W]

Women do watch porn. We run Sssh.com, 2014 is our 15th year.

[mavruda]

I think I know the answer - They don't because they are busy to do their thing in the kitchen ! Right ??!?

[themason698]

they shy what they see. but when they flirt its all obvious

[Marquis85]

You guys are hilarious. Of course women watch porn. My top converting sponsor last year was for a porn for women site.

[nexcom28]

Originally Posted by Marquis85

You guys are hilarious. Of course women watch porn. My top converting sponsor last year was for a porn for women site.

Mind sharing the name of the site?

[blackmonsters]

Originally Posted by SomeCreep

Women dont watch porn because they can get real dick in 2 seconds if they want and for free.

Why does every guy who says that run to the hills when an ugly chick says hello in a night club?

[Mefo]

Our female customers spend a helluva lot more on average compared to the guys and we have tons and tons of them. Women just know what they like and they are willing to pay for it.

[SomeCreep]

Originally Posted by blackmonsters

Why does every guy who says that run to the hills when an ugly chick says hello in a night club?

Ugly women get lots of dick man so long as they're not shy and not too picky.

[AtlantisCash]

Originally Posted by mikesinner

Your wife has been brainwashed like most women in modern society. This is done to hide there sexuality as girls become sexually aware about 1 year before boys.

At some point the ruling class realized that the best way to control society was to sexually subdue women.

And this is the reason that modern feminism is pro-sexuality. It is a reaction to the past subjugation of women.

You missed the point about modern feminism unless you talk about as late as 70s-80s, condolances humanity, they're long göne, now mostly bigotic feminazis around WHO are worse than taleban.

on the other hand women set their prefferences according to male's willing imho, we prefer purety so do women follow what we choose.

do women watch porn? sure some of them do.

[mozadek]

My girlfriend watches porn, she loves Princess Donna and her work at kink.

[nexcom28]

Sorry, I'm still not convinced women watch porn..

Out of curiosity, what percentage of guys do you think search for porn (any niche, any fetish) weekly
And what percentage of women do likewise?

[Far-L]

Women consume porn just like men.

Some like pro stuff. Some amateur. Some like the kinky nasty stuff, even the max hardcore misogynist trip. Some like watching guys together with guys like guys sometimes like women with women. Some are bored as shit with it in any form. Some just don't give a shit. Or pretend to not like it... or whatever just like men do.

Women like sex.

Sex is food and people have to eat.

Therefore women like sex and are are just as capable of enjoying porn, just like men.

[Marquis85]

Originally Posted by nexcom28

Mind sharing the name of the site?

Sure thing, it's Purple Dollars.

[mikesinner]

Originally Posted by Marquis85

Sure thing, it's Purple Dollars.

So even if an affiliate uses your direct link codes the surfer has to click on an age check link and then another link to see the pics? That's crazy. It's hard enough to get traffic as it is. I'm not funneling traffic through a program that does that.

[Marquis85]

Originally Posted by mikesinner

So even if an affiliate uses your direct link codes the surfer has to click on an age check link and then another link to see the pics? That's crazy. It's hard enough to get traffic as it is. I'm not funneling traffic through a program that does that.

Mike, I dont know what to tell you, take it up with the program owners. I was surprised that this converted at all to be honest, the program looks like shit but I can't argue with stats. This month my conversion rate is 1:700 something.

[fitzmulti]

Originally Posted by nexcom28

Sorry, I'm still not convinced women watch porn..

Out of curiosity, what percentage of guys do you think search for porn (any niche, any fetish) weekly
And what percentage of women do likewise?

Question:
Why should we all care if YOU are not convinced?

[NatalieMojoHost]

Originally Posted by Scott McD

They do.

They just clear their search history better than you...

+1

Do you seriously think women don't watch porn?
I guess it's society standards that make most women hide it very well, that's all.
Regardless of whether or not they are in a relationship - women do watch porn, most on a regular basis. And most of those don't search for any "Female-friendly" porn.
They enjoy porn differently though, choosing scenes that tell a story, not just straight up sex. But regardless, they do, whether it is obvious or not.

[NatalieMojoHost]

Originally Posted by TNVeric

when it comes to porn and sex, women play chess while men play checkers.

well put

[mopek1]

Originally Posted by nexcom28

These were the bullet points from the conversation

• I would prefer to watch a woman masturbate rather than a couple or a guy
  

She has some unresolved anger towards men.

[Magnetron]

Originally Posted by nexcom28

Sorry, I'm still not convinced women watch porn..

You are going to have more female surfers and buyers if your sites and sponsors are more gender friendly.

If your sites are crappy tube clones with thumbs of jizz covered spunk drooling faces surrounded by jiggle booty animated gifts shouting that ugly women need sex too ........

[Jel]

of course plenty of women watch porn, and plenty pay for it. Anyone who thinks that number is ANYWHERE near the amount of men who do is deluded though.

the post Elli agreed with put it best (cant be arsed to scroll up).