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ievolved99 · 09-02-2022, 07:49 PM

Anyone use sendy.co for adult dating?

Any email marketers out there want to let me know what platforms they use for adult dating friendly mailing?

Kaos_internet · 09-02-2022, 08:06 PM

ynotmail is your friend for that

ievolved99 · 09-02-2022, 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Kaos_internet

ynotmail is your friend for that

Yeah. I have seen that around. Do you use it or know anyone who has?

money biz · 09-02-2022, 09:01 PM

How big is your list?

fuzebox · 09-02-2022, 11:20 PM

Sendy is a great script, but SES is not going to approve you for dating mailing.

I'd look at Sendinblue and Mailgun, but without knowing more about your data and funnel... tread lightly

fuzebox · 09-02-2022, 11:22 PM

Wait so you are turning over six figures a month in dating mailing but you want to use a $69 script and plug it into Amazon SES?

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 06:36 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

Wait so you are turning over in dating mailing but you want to use a $69 script and plug it into Amazon SES?

We are a network where we connect mailers with advertisers. We payout millions a year with this. Our mailers mention they use SES at a scaled level. We have our own management software that connect to many different ESPs, MTAs. I am trying to see people's experience with it before expanding into others areas. It's good to diversity into different services/solutions when mailing at a scaled level.
Keep in mind, people don't set up one instance of a service. You can create many instances to expand to larger capacities. From what I am hearing from our pubs/mailers this is working well.
Do you do any mailing?

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 06:40 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

Sendy is a great script, but SES is not going to approve you for dating mailing.

I'd look at Sendinblue and Mailgun, but without knowing more about your data and funnel... tread lightly

We have a lot of mailers that send out for adult dating and use this service. Are you sure about that? I will have to dig into their terms.

money biz · 09-03-2022, 08:06 AM

The big boys all use powermta. The license about $10k a year.

fuzebox · 09-03-2022, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by ievolved99

We have a lot of mailers that send out for adult dating and use this service. Are you sure about that? I will have to dig into their terms.

I would guess they've either had their accounts a long time, or they have generic sites for approval that have nothing to do with dating.

fuzebox · 09-03-2022, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by ievolved99

Keep in mind, people don't set up one instance of a service. You can create many instances to expand to larger capacities. From what I am hearing from our pubs/mailers this is working well.
Do you do any mailing?

This makes sense. Yes, and I am also an advertiser.

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

I would guess they've either had their accounts a long time, or they have generic sites for approval that have nothing to do with dating.

Your saying they don't allow dating? The mailers they send out are mostly text and never nudity. It complies with CAN SPAM.

fuzebox · 09-03-2022, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by ievolved99

Your saying they don't allow dating? The mailers they send out are mostly text and never nudity. It complies with CAN SPAM.

They don't say they don't allow dating, when you apply to get your SES account un-sandboxed, they will look at your site and send you something like this:

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Thank you for submitting your request to increase your sending limits. We are unable to grant your request at this time.

We reviewed your request and determined that your use of Amazon SES could have a negative impact on our service. We are denying this request to prevent other Amazon SES customers from experiencing interruptions in service.

For security purposes, we are unable to provide specific details.

If you can provide additional information about how you plan to use Amazon SES, we might be able to grant your request. You can provide this information by replying to this message. In your response, include as much detail as you can about your email-sending processes and procedures.

For example, tell us how often you send email, how you maintain your recipient lists, and how you manage bounces, complaints, and unsubscribe requests. It is also helpful to provide examples of the email you plan to send so we can ensure that you are sending high-quality content.

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

This makes sense. Yes, and I am also an advertiser.

If you have any mail traffic I can pay you per click and will test your rates. We have the most sophisticated system for optimizing traffic. We work with a lot of the big guys. Been doing this for 27 years. Tons of experience.
Leave your contact info and I will hit you up. I can prepay your rates as a test PPC.

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

They don't say they don't allow dating, when you apply to get your SES account un-sandboxed, they will look at your site and send you something like this:

I see. There are many ways to get around this. Create vanilla dating sites. Non adult. Or are you saying they frown on a lot of dating sites in general?

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

I would guess they've either had their accounts a long time, or they have generic sites for approval that have nothing to do with dating.

Thanks for the info. I guess I have to ask them to see ;)

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by money biz

The big boys all use powermta. The license about $10k a year.

Tried that like 12 years ago. Different type of mailing. From my memory you normally obtain your own ranges. What I have found to work best is using ESPs that have partial whitelists with their ranges. This gets you in the front door faster in the TLDs. Then you need to have good engagement to maintain or grow your own rep.

Thanks for responding

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

Sendy is a great script, but SES is not going to approve you for dating mailing.

I'd look at Sendinblue and Mailgun, but without knowing more about your data and funnel... tread lightly

Thanks for your reply. We have used mailgun but not sendinblue. You have any experience with sendinblue?

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

This makes sense. Yes, and I am also an advertiser.

How do i get ahold of you? I can send you test traffic to your site as well? I need to sign up a new IM so I don't post my personal on here.

ievolved99 · 09-03-2022, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by fuzebox

This makes sense. Yes, and I am also an advertiser.

Skype me here if you want to test our platform for traffic. I can send you test traffic to see how it works.
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ievolved99 · 09-05-2022, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Peter Von Pablo

can anyone tell me how to send a internet email

In bulk or is this is a joke?

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