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sheldonjuan · 09-21-2003, 04:28 PM

this is my dilema. we are gonna move in together next month, and until now she has no idea. (I only do it p/t as a hobby) but how can I explain it when I am editing a transvestite gangband video?

advice please..

Oracle Porn · 09-21-2003, 04:29 PM

Your fucked buddy!

nosey · 09-21-2003, 04:30 PM

fang · 09-21-2003, 04:31 PM

Why not be honest with her?

If she can't handle it I'd rather know now instead of later...why waste your time and hers

AphEX · 09-21-2003, 04:32 PM

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Originally posted by fang
Why not be honest with her?

If she can't handle it I'd rather know now instead of later...why waste your time and hers

thats right !!

rooster · 09-21-2003, 04:34 PM

id only tell her if your just a service provider. (ie, a programer that does work for adult clients) etc.

NoCarrier · 09-21-2003, 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sheldonjuan
this is my dilema. we are gonna move in together next month, and until now she has no idea. (I only do it p/t as a hobby) but how can I explain it when I am editing a transvestite gangband video?

advice please..

Remove the "We are moving together" part and you will be fine. This will be your 1st and last mistake.

iroc409 · 09-21-2003, 04:35 PM

tell her it's a documentary you're doing for some fancy shit, like real sex tv or something lame like that. that should work

Anna_O · 09-21-2003, 04:35 PM

If she brake up with you over something like running pornsites, she ain't worth living with...

Juicy D. Links · 09-21-2003, 04:36 PM

donkeyyyyyyyyy

Spunky · 09-21-2003, 04:38 PM

Tell her nothing..bullshit her

Sly_RJ · 09-21-2003, 04:38 PM

I wouldn't have a girlfriend who wasn't cool with porn. Fuck I probably wouldn't even have a friend who wasn't cool with porn. It pays my bills, no chickie is worth losing that.

sheldonjuan · 09-21-2003, 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by fang
Why not be honest with her?

If she can't handle it I'd rather know now instead of later...why waste your time and hers

what did your girl say?

Juicy D. Links · 09-21-2003, 04:40 PM

fuck that bitch is she dont like it , plenty of pussy to seduce to replace her

sheldonjuan · 09-21-2003, 04:41 PM

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Originally posted by spunky1
Tell her nothing..bullshit her

I was thinking about putting a login password on, but its just a pain in the ass!

BlackCrayon · 09-21-2003, 04:43 PM

i've always worried about telling girls what i do, but i do it within the first month of dating/seeing them/getting to know them/whatever. none seemed to think there was anything wrong with it, as they were smart opened minded women. some said they knew it as soon as i told them i did web design. only 1 didn't like it, and we disagreed on many other things which lead to the end of anything happening between us. yes you should tell her and you should of a long time ago probably.

sheldonjuan · 09-21-2003, 04:43 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
fuck that bitch is she dont like it , plenty of pussy to seduce to replace her

but she is unlike any other girl I met, she brings me breakfast in bed!

nosey · 09-21-2003, 04:45 PM

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Originally posted by sheldonjuan

but she is unlike any other girl I met, she brings me breakfast in bed!

you lucky son of a......

Juicy D. Links · 09-21-2003, 04:46 PM

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Originally posted by sheldonjuan

but she is unlike any other girl I met, she brings me breakfast in bed!

WTF yooooooooooo

You live in a town where there is only 2 bitches ???

Plenty of vagina in the world man , broaden your horizons

Voodoo · 09-21-2003, 04:47 PM

You don't run porn sites... They run you!

Persius · 09-21-2003, 04:47 PM

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Originally posted by sheldonjuan

I was thinking about putting a login password on, but its just a pain in the ass!

.
Not really if you have winxp

just press Windows key + L

it goes in login mode

just have several accounts and when ur not using pc shut down or press win+L

1mx · 09-21-2003, 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sheldonjuan
this is my dilema. we are gonna move in together next month, and until now she has no idea. (I only do it p/t as a hobby) but how can I explain it when I am editing a transvestite gangband video?

advice please..

I would tell straight out what you do and then show her the bling you make. Woman love the guys that make the bling. She will total forget about the whole pron thing and will love the money.

SomeCreep · 09-21-2003, 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sheldonjuan
this is my dilema. we are gonna move in together next month, and until now she has no idea. (I only do it p/t as a hobby) but how can I explain it when I am editing a transvestite gangband video?

advice please..

Tell her if she doesnt accept what you do, you're going to leave her for a tranny.

brand0n · 09-21-2003, 04:52 PM

tell her the TRUTH if its ment to be she will understand and help u make content.. if not.. fuck her 1 last time, take pics and send them to me brand0n at aol.com

Trent Edison · 09-21-2003, 04:52 PM

OWNED

Mr Pheer · 09-21-2003, 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sheldonjuan

but she is unlike any other girl I met, she brings me breakfast in bed!

you think thats something?

last night I woke my wife up at 3:30am, I said, hey I'm thirsty

she gets out of bed, comes back with a coke on ice for me, and asks if I would like anything else

danevans · 09-21-2003, 04:54 PM

Heh, I showed my gf what I do and now she wants me to give her content to make some BYOT tours for ARS or premade designs LOL

polish_aristocrat · 09-21-2003, 04:56 PM

Send her the link to this thread.

B_Maverick · 09-21-2003, 05:01 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
fuck that bitch is she dont like it , plenty of pussy to seduce to replace her

That's a little vague, Juicy...what do you really mean?

fang · 09-21-2003, 05:01 PM

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Originally posted by sheldonjuan

what did your girl say?

I've been married to her for 10 years and we've been togather for 12 years.... I've been doing porn for 4 years and it has never been a problem

Carlito · 09-21-2003, 05:03 PM

I hinted at it with my GF for a while...

I told her the only reason I am telling her is that I don`t want her to walk in when i`m " editing pictures of girls getting fucked and cummed on ". She said " it sucks that you do that, but you`d leave me if I didn`t accept it.

Kinda sucks all around, but i dunno.

Girls just take this stuff way easier than I expected.

My GF has been changing her habits to fit mine in everyway imagineable. Don`t change yours.

B_Maverick · 09-21-2003, 05:04 PM

I've never had any issues with the fact that I am in the Adult Business....but I have had complaints about spendng too much time working.

Sly_RJ · 09-21-2003, 05:04 PM

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Originally posted by MrPheer

you think thats something?

last night I woke my wife up at 3:30am, I said, hey I'm thirsty

she gets out of bed, comes back with a coke on ice for me, and asks if I would like anything else

Haha. Sure, but you're a cripple for the time being. Would she have done it if you could do it yourself?

Carlito · 09-21-2003, 05:06 PM

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Originally posted by B_Maverick
I've never had any issues with the fact that I am in the Adult Business....but I have had complaints about spendng too much time working.

Too much time working is the biggest issue all around.

B_Maverick · 09-21-2003, 05:06 PM

But in any case...why the fuck are you moving in together? Huge economy sized error, in my opinion.

doober · 09-21-2003, 05:06 PM

this thread is hilarious....

Mr Pheer · 09-21-2003, 05:07 PM

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Originally posted by Sly_RJ

Haha. Sure, but you're a cripple for the time being. Would she have done it if you could do it yourself?

Hey man, quit trying to change the subject

developer · 09-21-2003, 05:09 PM

What is she working with?

the indigo · 09-21-2003, 05:09 PM

wtf..

What is wrong with porn, in the first place?

Nothing wrong. So if she doesn't agree, fuck her.

Persius · 09-21-2003, 05:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by brand0n
tell her the TRUTH if its ment to be she will understand and help u make content.. if not.. fuck her 1 last time, take pics and send them to me brand0n at aol.com

LOL

developer · 09-21-2003, 05:12 PM

Tell her parents, they will let her know.

LadyMischief · 09-21-2003, 05:13 PM

If you think for some reason that it's going to change the way she feels about you, you should tell her anyways. No relationship can thrive where there is any dishonesty, especially something with the potential for damage as this. If she loves you, it shouldn't matter, should it. Shame on you for letting it go THIS far without telling her.

sheldonjuan · 09-21-2003, 05:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MrPheer

you think thats something?

last night I woke my wife up at 3:30am, I said, hey I'm thirsty

she gets out of bed, comes back with a coke on ice for me, and asks if I would like anything else

but I dont leave $300 on the bedside table in the morning.

Mr Pheer · 09-21-2003, 05:18 PM

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Originally posted by sheldonjuan

but I dont leave $300 on the bedside table in the morning.

me neither

but now that you mention it.... I havent seen my wallet in 6 weeks

swingerman · 09-21-2003, 05:19 PM

be honest with her

Sly_RJ · 09-21-2003, 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MrPheer

Hey man, quit trying to change the subject

Furious_Female · 09-21-2003, 05:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MrPheer

you think thats something?

last night I woke my wife up at 3:30am, I said, hey I'm thirsty

she gets out of bed, comes back with a coke on ice for me, and asks if I would like anything else

pfft! I can beat that... I'd even go to the store @ 3:30AM for my husband if he wanted something!

Furious_Female · 09-21-2003, 05:34 PM

I think she has the right to know something major like that before she lives with you. Wouldn't you like to know her big secrets before you move in with her or would you be ok not knowing, if she has any?

B_Maverick · 09-21-2003, 05:39 PM

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Originally posted by Furious_Female

pfft! I can beat that... I'd even go to the store @ 3:30AM for my husband if he wanted something!

Have you got a sister who is the same way?

KaLi · 09-21-2003, 05:42 PM

Just tell her... Never know, she might do it too!

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