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Old 07-20-2017, 11:39 AM   #1
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:stop Linkin Park Singer COMMITS SUICIDE by hanging

Commits suicide by hanging



Linkin Park singer Chester Bennington has committed suicide ... TMZ has learned.
Law enforcement sources tell us the singer hanged himself at a private residence in Palos Verdes Estates in L.A. County. His body was discovered Thursday just before 9 AM.
Chester was married with 6 children from 2 wives.
The singer struggled with drugs and alcohol for years. He had said in the past he had considered committing suicide because he had been abused as a child by an older male


Linkin Park Singer Chester Bennington Dead, Commits Suicide by Hanging | TMZ.com
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Loser. Sorry for his family.
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Sorry but suicides do not get to "Rest In Peace".

Fuck them - six kids who no longer have a father.
Suicide is pure selfishness, pure ego, not caring about anyone else while they lament no one cares about them.

Sorry, no sympathy.
Cobain, Chris Cornell, this idiot - enough already. SEEK HELP.
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No, you're doing it wrong.

You don't hang yourself. You bide your time, and wait to hang those who destroyed the culture. I suspect that he and other nu-metal artists knew that nu-metal was a music industry scam to take real rebellion out of metal, in case it got too close to the truth. When I first heard Korn, it suddenly felt like metal was for 10 year olds, which I guess was the idea.

If you liked Cornell, then take the trouble to become the artist you wanted to be before you take leave of this earth. But anyways, RIP.
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Your music changed a lot of peoples lifes for the better. I listen to them almost daily
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Sorry but suicides do not get to "Rest In Peace".

Fuck them - six kids who no longer have a father.
Suicide is pure selfishness, pure ego, not caring about anyone else while they lament no one cares about them.

Sorry, no sympathy.
Cobain, Chris Cornell, this idiot - enough already. SEEK HELP.
That is your oppinion, but the rest of us dont have to share it.
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Depressed libbies are killing themselves





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good riddance to another stupid cunt
He was a Republican you dope. A "never Trump" Republican.

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no, the industry are putting them up to say shit like that. See "Goodnight Alt-Right" by Stray From The Path.

Nu-metal = kosher metal. They're preying on average bands' desperation to get signed, so they can dictate the narrative to them.
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no, the industry are putting them up to say shit like that. See "Goodnight Alt-Right" by Stray From The Path.

Nu-metal = kosher metal. They're preying on average bands' desperation to get signed, so they can dictate the narrative to them.

Serious question. Are you posting from a mental institution?
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Romero's gone, the walking dead are no more

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Serious question. Are you posting from a mental institution?
You need more than name-calling.

The ADL, Jewish journalists and antifa have done it to death. People can see through that shit now.
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We all know how you dislike reasonable posts.
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The ADL, Jewish journalists and antifa have done it to death. People can see through that shit now.
you are delusional. Seek help. Seriously..
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I don't know why people insist on calling people who take their own lives losers or that they were cowards.

Imagine being so sad, depressed, or overwhelmed with something in your life (be it addiction, mental illness or whatever) that you feel like taking your own life is the only option left to you. These people don't do this stuff on a whim. Most of them have been thinking about it for a while and some have been trying to get help as well. This is the culmination of a long period of suffering, often suffering that has gone on for years.

When someone takes their own life, especially if they leave behind kids and family, it's a tragedy. Instead of calling them losers or bashing them, maybe we should be asking why they did it and try to figure out what could have been done to help them so that others may benefit.
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I sought help years ago, but soon enough discovered that psychology and psychiatry could not give a FUCK about "helping" white Gentiles.

If anyone reading this had a similar experience, PM me.
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I don't know why people insist on calling people who take their own lives losers or that they were cowards.

Imagine being so sad, depressed, or overwhelmed with something in your life (be it addiction, mental illness or whatever) that you feel like taking your own life is the only option left to you. These people don't do this stuff on a whim. Most of them have been thinking about it for a while and some have been trying to get help as well. This is the culmination of a long period of suffering, often suffering that has gone on for years.
And how is that not a description of a loser of life?
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Six children by two wives? I'd read he had six with the current wife and three from two previous relationships.

He waited until his good friend Chris Cornell's birthday. No mention of a suicide note yet. No report on substances in his system.

It's sad nine kids lost their daddy.
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I don't know why people insist on calling people who take their own lives losers or that they were cowards.

Imagine being so sad, depressed, or overwhelmed with something in your life (be it addiction, mental illness or whatever) that you feel like taking your own life is the only option left to you. These people don't do this stuff on a whim. Most of them have been thinking about it for a while and some have been trying to get help as well. This is the culmination of a long period of suffering, often suffering that has gone on for years.

When someone takes their own life, especially if they leave behind kids and family, it's a tragedy. Instead of calling them losers or bashing them, maybe we should be asking why they did it and try to figure out what could have been done to help them so that others may benefit.
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... as you can see it's futile.
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I don't know why people insist on calling people who take their own lives losers or that they were cowards.

Imagine being so sad, depressed, or overwhelmed with something in your life (be it addiction, mental illness or whatever) that you feel like taking your own life is the only option left to you. These people don't do this stuff on a whim. Most of them have been thinking about it for a while and some have been trying to get help as well. This is the culmination of a long period of suffering, often suffering that has gone on for years.

When someone takes their own life, especially if they leave behind kids and family, it's a tragedy. Instead of calling them losers or bashing them, maybe we should be asking why they did it and try to figure out what could have been done to help them so that others may benefit.
I agree with your sentiment but did you ever think that maybe calling them out, calling them "losers" and "selfish", IS in fact helping future suicides? It's called Tough Love and there simply is not enough of it in today's society.

Often times a suicide is doing so to seek attention, the infamous "cry for help". Maybe if they realize that the kind of attention they will get by harming themselves is NOT the kind they crave they won't kill themselves. They think it will bring sympathy, sadness, revenge, and they will be missed and loved. Instead if they think they will face retribution and eerision they WILL seek the help we both want them to get.
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Six children by two wives? I'd read he had six with the current wife and three from two previous relationships.

He waited until his good friend Chris Cornell's birthday. No mention of a suicide note yet. No report on substances in his system.

It's sad nine kids lost their daddy.
Their new album was released a couple months ago too and last month he was talking about working with Eminem. It doesn't make sense he'd kill himself...
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I agree with your sentiment but did you ever think that maybe calling them out, calling them "losers" and "selfish", IS in fact helping future suicides? It's called Tough Love and there simply is not enough of it in today's society.

Often times a suicide is doing so to seek attention, the infamous "cry for help". Maybe if they realize that the kind of attention they will get by harming themselves is NOT the kind they crave they won't kill themselves. They think it will bring sympathy, sadness, revenge, and they will be missed and loved. Instead if they think they will face retribution and eerision they WILL seek the help we both want them to get.
I'm pretty sure most of them realize killing themselves will hurt their loved ones and those around them. The desire to end their life, however, is a stronger feeling. To me, saying negative things and giving them "tough love" isn't going to help, it is only going to further hurt those left behind.
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And how is that not a description of a loser of life?
Because someone was abused and has struggled with that while also battling addiction issues doesn't make them a loser in my opinion.
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I'm pretty sure most of them realize killing themselves will hurt their loved ones and those around them. The desire to end their life, however, is a stronger feeling. To me, saying negative things and giving them "tough love" isn't going to help, it is only going to further hurt those left behind.
Maybe, but who can tell what's inside the mind of a suicide? Showing how much they were loved didn't do the trick.

In the end there are no answers but I am entitled to feel angry at suicides just as those who feel sad are entitled to their responses.
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Because someone was abused and has struggled with that while also battling addiction issues doesn't make them a loser in my opinion.
How many people were abused? How many of them struggle that much decades after the abuse? Some are weaker than others.

Anyway what you say is not that he was not a loser.
What you say that he was a loser, but justified (aka abuse).
You can also say that it is insensitive to conclude that he was a loser of life.
But you can not say that he was not a loser based on that description, because it would be just wow. I mean look at your description as decide does it describe winner?

So please separate 3 things:

1. It is insensitive and not PC top state a fact of him being a loser. I agree.
2. He was a loser. That is just cold hard fact.
3. It may have not been his fault, aka abuse. But nobody is claiming that it necessary was.
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Old 07-20-2017, 07:26 PM   #45
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Old 07-20-2017, 07:28 PM   #46
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In the end there are no answers but I am entitled to feel angry at suicides just as those who feel sad are entitled to their responses.
Indeed, and none of those are making the world a better or worse place - its just opinions on the internet, that we all post to make sure, people we dont know, have heard how we really feel...

It's all completely pointless, untill some of us get up, move away from our keyboard and start doing stuff.
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Sorry but suicides do not get to "Rest In Peace".

Fuck them - six kids who no longer have a father.
Suicide is pure selfishness, pure ego, not caring about anyone else while they lament no one cares about them.

Sorry, no sympathy.
Cobain, Chris Cornell, this idiot - enough already. SEEK HELP.
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suicide is mental illness. you all that call him a loser probably have no idea what he was going through in order for him to leave a rock star life and 6 children behind
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It's awful RIP
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I don't know why people insist on calling people who take their own lives losers or that they were cowards.

Imagine being so sad, depressed, or overwhelmed with something in your life (be it addiction, mental illness or whatever) that you feel like taking your own life is the only option left to you. These people don't do this stuff on a whim. Most of them have been thinking about it for a while and some have been trying to get help as well. This is the culmination of a long period of suffering, often suffering that has gone on for years.

When someone takes their own life, especially if they leave behind kids and family, it's a tragedy. Instead of calling them losers or bashing them, maybe we should be asking why they did it and try to figure out what could have been done to help them so that others may benefit.
Because he has 6 kids who need him. When you father kids it is your duty to raise them.
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