Do women in pornography end up settling down & having happy families after retirement?
 

I've always wondered what type of guys would marry a former porn star who has lost her looks and has been violated by hundreds, if not thousands, of men?

Can these women have normal, productive, and happy lives after porn?

Well i know there are active hardcore pornstars which have husbands even in conservartive country like mine so i dont see why that would'nt work.

Violated?

Hmmm, let me consider this for a moment here...ummmmmmmmmm.........

No.

you dont work with talent and it shows :upsidedow

yep they can and do - was just exchanging messages with Aneta Keyes and she's happily married and retired from porn.

that Shelley Lubin dead pornstar video is a joke - half of the people in it were AIDS deaths of gay male porn performers, a bunch of others were car accidents - then drug overdoses, and suicides. Porn is an industry that definitely has a lot of drug use, probably the same as the music industry. I'm sure that as a % no more pornstars died of drug overdoses than those who die of drug overdoses in the music industry.

The suicides considering the number of years that religious idiot covers are probably no more than any group of people between 18-35. Getting into the porn industry i'm sure didn't help those people with their psychological problems but her assertion that the porn industry is responsible for a large number of deaths is false.

No......

studies show about 5-7% of adult performers leave the industry alive.

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Could you imagine how ravaged and loose their vagina's would be after been fucked by that many men, and then pushing out a kid or two :(

most are drug addicts who die early

hard to go back to being a soccer mom after you ate a cum omelette.

So what do they do with their lives after porn? It seems like no matter what type of work they choose to do, someone will recognize them and out them for their porn background.

Are most former female porn stars unmarried women who live lonely lives?

how many 'regular' women have banged 100's or 1000's in the clubs over the course of so many years before settling down. its not much different, only with 'regular' girls, its much easier for them to hide it.

have u seen what the pornstars from the 90's look like today at 40? nobody's gonna recognize them :1orglaugh

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Jezebels, all of them!!! :mad: :1orglaugh

Loaded question with words like "violated", and the "lost her looks" premise, but you're muthafakin' Dark Jedi, damn it! :winkwink:

Anyway, the ones that you don't hear about are the ones that move from normal, productive, and happy lives in porn, to normal, productive and happy lives after they choose to leave porn for whatever reason. :)

I have several friends in this category. :smilie_we

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my nominee for greatest GFY poster/trainwreck of all time.

if anybody has that Youtube video somebody made with the synthesized voice singing ''My name is stickfingerz and i'm a thief, i'm a thief ........." please let me know. it's gone from youtube and i loved that video.

that guy has mad gold bars... :1orglaugh

i predict it's only a few more years before 12 clicks goes down the same path of failure that ryan did...






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he holds the record for the most depressing facebook updates of all time.

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Would they be any more ravaged than an ordinary girl in an ordinary relationship?

Actually, porn slags - I mean, "stars" - CAN lead happy, normal lives if they marry tattoed biker dudes who make their living selling meth while their wife "negotiates" the deals via oral trades.

Oh wait, I'm so cynical....

I mean: Sure, if they leave the drugs, leave the orgies, get the taste of bukkake and attention out of their system, gain a hundred pounds, lose a hundred pounds, turn thirty, find some rich loser geek from Cinncinati who doesn't mind (even likes) her "dark past" and they move to Tucson where he runs a small IT firm and she runs her online regenerative cream business while their two sons go to middle school. They don't really participate in those PTA meetings, and always sit in the back during teacher-parent nights, and mostly shop online (it's cheaper anyway!) and vacation in the Gulf so whatever.

Stuff like that. :)

Two girls I know who used to do serious extreme porn both ended up married to really sensible down to earth guys. The guys even knew what they had done and it didnt bother them.

I seriously doubt any of them even think about marriage.

I don't think about it, so I have no clue why they would.

Not everybody gives a shit about having some nagging shit in their home all the time
for the rest of their life.

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Good question for Claudia Maria, she's approaching old as fuck age

sure. they go on to run aids testing facilities out of the backs of cars.

ask Robbie?

1000s of guys ? Sounds like fuzzy math. lol

I just did a quick check on IAFD to see the # of titles that girls who have been around for awhile have done.

Dana Dearmond - 6 Years/285 Titles
Courtney Cummz - 7 Years/102 Titles
Phoenix Marie - 4 Years/247 Titles
Lexi Belle - 5 Years/308 Titles
Tory Lane - 7 Years/439 Titles

So, the highest average is Tory Lane at 62 titles per year. It's possible that someone who's been around for awhile can make a more accurate estimate, but my guess would be that at 62 titles per year, the average number of guys per year would be around 20 which is no different than most hot 20-something year old girls who live in big cities.

With that being said, and seeing as your reasoning uses textbook 'guy with a small penis' logic, you do have a point in that it's highly likely their having been with well hung male talent could pose a problem for you personally. :2 cents:

SORRY BLACK CRAYON - I MEANT TO RESPOND TO DARK_JEDI!!!

Dont girls that are just sluts get married too?

How is that different to any other woman? Are pornstar babies bigger than normal babies?

Fucking is good for vagina muscle tone and porn stars and slutty women are more likely to do kegels as well. So I wouldn't worry about looseness, except to the extent that some porn stars are size queens in terms of their tastes in cock.

There are always tons of dudes who want to settle down with star talent I work with. Some of them make what I consider bad choices, in that they don't get that they won't be hot enough to have their pick of that caliber of men forever, so they might want to settle down early or learn how to be supportive and kind and how to, ya know, cook.

I realize I live in Los Angeles and I work on the tasteful end of the spectrum and I personally only shoot hardcore with real life sex partners, but I don't think an adult background is any more limiting in that regard than lots of other life choices.

This is a good post.

no doubt and on top of that there is only so much male talent, you always see the same guys in movies so despite the number of scenes a girl does how often does she work with the same guys. the only time you really get into the questionable area is girls that do bukakke or something with a bunch of amateur mopes.

I'm sure they can. The potential problem is that now with the internet the odds are people will find out what you used to do a lot more easily and it could be a problem for your kids or potentially for your career. I have read stories about former pornstars getting fired from their jobs because of what they once did. Two cases that come to mind were a woman who did porn in her early 20 and now was in her late 30's married with two kids and was a teacher. She had been a teacher for more than 10 years and was considered a very good teacher by everyone at the school. He past was found out and she was eventually fired. Another was a woman in Texas who had a similar situation only now she was a cop and she got fired.

Last I read both were suing for wrongful termination, but I have no idea how the cases turned out.

what does "getting married" have to do with having a happy life?? :helpme:2 cents::pimp

So that is a little over 1 scene per week. Most women fuck the bf or hubby more than that.

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I know quite a few ex porn stars I worked with and who got fed up with the industry and found a nice guy and started a family. These guys always knew about it and didn't care. Many guys know it's better to marry an ex-prostitute or ex-pornstar who had a hard life and learned to appreciate the small things in life, than marrying some 21 year old virgin who grew up as a spoiled single child on the tennis court.

Also remember the most beautiful porn star every Kelly Havel? (even though she never did b/g I think)... she ended up marrying the son of a USA senator.

Does it matter? Everybody is different. Some people never grow up, most do.

There are also plenty of happily married pornstars who treat it like the job it is.

No Pathfinder in that video? :(

I remember having an hour long phone conversation with Chloe Jones and one of the things I remember was how she said she really wanted to live to make it to 30. At the time, I didn't understand or know that she had liver problems.

She also talked about how come she never gets the good guys, since her last boyfriend had broken her arms.

Thank you. You're hot!

Agreed. Here's an excerpt from an email I sent to someone before PWL was taken down

An angle which I feel has not received enough attention is the effect that it will have on the post porn careers of all those who are affected. It occurred to me a couple weeks ago when I was on %#%% looking for a mainstream job b/c I'm probably going to quit doing the site within the next couple of months. You can search for members by company and I searched to see if there was a member who worked for either #@$@#$@ or one of the big studios. There were two people. $%$#%%#% and one girl who's job description did not indicate 'performer. The profiles don't give a lot of info, so I Googled her because she could have possibly been someone to try to connect with in hopes of getting a good job and because I thought she was cute. When I search her name, PWL was in the #3 spot and without even clicking on the link, I was able to see her stage name in the description. I don't want to say who it was, but let's just say that she was pretty well known before retiring and, on a spectrum from an ex-performer having done a few Digital Desire photo spreads to an ex-performer having done hundreds of Evil Angel movies, she was way more towards the latter. She's obviously still involved in the industry, but she used her real name on $%$#%% for a reason and should definitely have the right to not have that information out there.

Seeing that performing careers, on average, do not last very long, I really do feel that the major negative effect of PWL is the effect that it has on the post performing careers of performers and I think there would be more success in using that as the primary argument as to why the website should be taken down. The stalker argument is overblown. Stalkers are going to stalk and there is no rhyme or reason as to how they stalk because they're fucked up in the head. I mean, Luke Walton had stalker! The existence of PWL MIGHT make things easier for a few lazy, failed stalkers, but it will DEFINITELY effect the post performing careers of hundreds or thousands of performers looking to move on with their lives and I just think that's a much stronger argument which should be used more. "

In the case of the cop in the post I made when she was 19 her mom got sick and she was in college. She had two choices. Either find a way to make enough money to help her mom out while she was in school or quit school and get a full time job. Through a series of event she met some people who hooked up with a content producer and she ended up making about 8-10 porn movies over the course of a year. She made enough to help her mom who then got better and she left the biz. Then almost 20 years later someone found out about it. She came clean. She even pointed out that she never lied about her past because she was never asked about it, but still it cost her her career. Even if she wins her lawsuit and they are forced to hire her back they will be doing everything in their power to find a reason to fire her.

That's fucked up. I really hope she wins. I saw the other day that January Seraph started Adult Performers Association. Refreshing b/c I don't think there has ever been such a group. Unless you count the FSC, of course, which I don't because they kind of suck. Here's the link. http://adultperformers.org/

What kills me is how the guy who made the first post has a 2001 join date. He has absolutely no excuse to be such an idiot. The only thing I can think of is that maybe it's kind of like how when my grandparents gave me $2K to invest in the stock market when I was 8 years old. I used it buy shares for companies that made the toys, video games, and candy that I liked at the time. Probably not the wisest investment strategy, but it was still worth over $60K when I was granted access to the account after finishing college. Point being that even someone with the brain of an 8 year could have been somewhat successful in this industry if they had started at around that time.

I've only had a limited amount of interaction with girls (performers) in the industry, but most of them seem to be pretty intelligent. At least more so than the majority of mid-twenties girls that I know or have known here where I live. I certainly doubt many of them would know how to get or what to with 70,000 followers on Twitter. It's actually really funny to think about it. Porn stars are essentially running their own companies whereas many girls of the same age in my town are still getting coffee for their boss.

I don't want to judge anyone though. Maybe Dark Jedi and people who think like him just happen to live in places where the girls are more attractive, career oriented and competitive. Or in a city that is both more intellectually and more culturally stimulating than it is here. Maybe their logic can somehow be justified. I'm just not really feeling it. :2 cents:

Yes, they settle down, have kids, make wonderful parents, and live happily ever after.

Exactly my thoughts.

Most on this board think they're in the porn industry because they tap on a keyboard. :1orglaugh

I think a more pertinent question is

Do webmasters in pornography end up settling down & having happy a retirement? :1orglaugh
I did. :thumbsup

I don't really care what happens to them ...

I think you might be the forums only virgin.

Explain the difference between a woman getting fucked through out her life by one man and pushing out a kid or two to a woman getting fucked by 'many men and pushing out a kid or two'.