When you start a new relationship with a girl
 

...........non-porn girl, do you both get a blood test before getting in bed for the first time? Or would you say that this is not common practice in normal relationships?

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no I just make her get the test...

I personally wouldnt go sticking my dinger in strange holes condom or not. I think i'd be a relief to her if you brought it up to be honest.

I fuck virgins only :P

I get tested when I go for a physical just to be safe.

Make sure she isn't pregnant ...

you guys serious ? , i thought that paranoia went over after the reagan era.

whats the problem with condoms ? do you guys allready plan to fist or bareback anal during the first night ??

I'd rather have no sex at all than use one of those things...

Can you catch something from fisting?

Someone in this thread has never been laid.

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Would you get her tested first then?

I ask because I know someone who sleeps around and I said to him what if you get hiv, he just said oh well if he gets it then he will see when it happens..........

Do you think that I am over cautious?

You should probably stick with dudes

Its your body at the end of the day. I dont think theres a such thing as being over cautious when it comes to STD's or HIV

You kidding right

LOL :-D

Do you only fuck whores or ex-whores?

This paranoia is crazy.. Just get to know her a bit first and you wont risk.

Can't imagine asking her to get tested , she would probably leave me because I do not trust her and suspect her of being a slut or a druggie.

the last 2 women i dated i asked for both of us to get tested. They were both for it with no issues at all. Both were professional non porn women

with 1:4 people having herpes your crazy not to get tested

even if you ask them to be honest are you going to ask to see results or take their word for it? like they are going to say, oh yeah, the test said i have herpes, sorry.

LOL, that's the first thing I thought too!

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After you break x amount of condoms you will both feel ok with going bareback :thumbsup

I asked friends after breaking a condom do you put another on, and how long before you say fuck it. they said yes put another on, If it breaks again just keep going. Reason this came up was that I took a girl home broke like 6 condoms in one night...

Everyone gets in contact with oral herpes (not the genital one). You usually get it as a child and the same virus may cause genital herpes if you have sex in the time it is active. As for the genital one, you can actually get it just from kissing, so do you ask them to get tested before any physical contact? That would be a bit crazy. There are people who have the virus but it has never been activated in them because of good immunity. I have never had a cold sore even though many girls I was with had oral herpes in them. Lol, when I was a teenager I even kissed my GF while she had that on her lip. It has never appeared on me.

If they are infected, you just leave them or what?

yes oral is far more common and I wouldnt leave them for oral. Genital is a different issue and I havent been presented with it yet so I am not sure what I would do in that case.

well as i learned at school (during the reagan era)

in theory, if you have a open wound on your hand, fingers yes, ruff fisting even hard petting could infect you or your partner either.
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Also keep a lot of handwipes on hand in case you have to shake hands or touch door knobs.

More likely to lose something

Na, just make sure you get a pretty one. Pretty girls are always clean.

Well the deal is, that if you want to fuck freely and spontaneously, then all you can do is wear a condom and not practice oral sex - that would be impossible for me since licking a pussy is my big hobby. :winkwink:

Just ask them if they ever had something on their twats or assholes..

This is one of the reasons why prefer teens, less chance to catch something. :2 cents:

Its the other way around. Pretty ones have the opportunity to fuck more (and usually do).

OR, they are more selective:2 cents:

I dated a girl a few years ago, messed around a bit, but never "parked the car in the garage." One day she tells me no sex until "we" take an STD test. No worries, I go and get one done but she REFUSES to, saying she knows she clean and but wanted me to because she knew about "my past."

Found out though someone else, one of her friends knew who I was and just made shit up about me. No biggie to me, we ended up breaking up shortly there after for other reasons.

About a year later I find out through a mutual friend she had HPV the whole time, she got it from her long term ex bf

How do you know that you do not have HPV?

The real killer part of starting a new relationship is the first fart...you really gotta feel out the right time for it or else you can fuck up the relationship right out of the gate. Up until that point you're walking around like a balloon :(

LOL! Sad but true...

I use the pull out method

so she is supposed to just trust you then?

Sorry baby i just can't fuck you tonight , tomorrow morning we will goto the clinic and make sure you don't have herpes

I try to only roofie clean looking girls.

Na, the ugly ones fuck anyone who will throw their dick in them. But the hot ones, the really, really hot ones... they don't need dirty dick. So those are the ones you go after. Always clean. Ugly girls will give you drippy dick, that's a scientific fact. They even say so on NatGeo.

I dont think he is rofl...

lol but there is an error in that the guys that hot girls hook up with are the same guys all the hot girls hook up with so they have a higher probability of being dirty and transferring the dirty to uninfected hot girls.

Oh man, I just fell down from the sofa cracking so much

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Industry Standard :thumbsup

We have a winner :thumbsup

...and that's why they have lube. That or stop buying dollar store condoms.

I was born because a condom was used in pretty much a brief relationship. I know a girl who had two kids she didn't plan on having with two different men because she used a condom.

Just saying, make sure you use the pill as well.

Isn't usual ask for a test, if you don't trust is better use a condom.

No doctors/tests here but I do a full pre fuck inspection that involves a 500 watt halogen light, a black light, hydrogen peroxide, a set of stainless steel bbq utensils, and a turkey baster.