Why Relationships Fail?
 

I'm starting to think that i'm the wrong one :S

It's her not me

I'm a cheating asshole.

IMHO, every 7 years you change significantly so as to be a different person with different views, dreams and expectations of life. Sure people stay together for long periods, but more often than not, that is just out of need or circumstance.

2 people that start out compatible may not be quite as compatible in 7 years time. Even less so 14 years on... Let alone 21...

I just think people are not really supposed to stay together in this day and age. Sure, years ago, when life was much harder and difficult an there was a much lower life expectancy etc, it made sense for one man and one woman to pool the recourses and stick together working for each others survival.

In this day and age of easy living and the need for frivolous instant gratification, a lot of relationships fail...


Its no big deal really. Life is too short to be unhappy. Just move on and dont dwell on it.

Sound advice and totally true :thumbsup

Wise words, my friend, but still we all need love, and that's why there's no giving up, yuu! Maybe you are 'the wrong one' for the previous girls, but the girl for you is out there. You need to believe :thumbsup
Sorry mate, just watched the x files. Man, I still love that show. It will never let me down.

Hey CS, nice post.

You're very insightful when not talking about poo.

Too easy to find new pussy
She won't take it in da pooper
I'm an asshole with commitment issues at the 2-2 1/2 year mark

just a few :2 cents:

just a guess but i doubt he's very happy with his life.

you are pedestalling the pussy...unrealistic expectations...get whores...its true love...you love your dick, she loves your money...

Happily married (and faithfully monogamous) 18 years...together for 21.

And to think it started online.

Before that - like L-Pink...I had way too much fun being a cheatin' asshole. :1orglaugh

I am her world. I saved her :2 cents:

People change over time. People change a lot over a long period of time.

I've been married twenty years now; We've changed a lot since then.

SEX, is the main reason, even before money. If your in a relationship and your not getting it, its going to be not that long till your going somewhere else thanks to biology.

I'm not. Its no secret, I've said it before :2 cents:

However, does pointing that out to everyone make you feel better about your life? :helpme

not at all. i wasn't trying to put you down or anything. even though i think your constant poop posting is a bit disturbing and makes me wonder why you choose poo.. you seem like a decent guy.

my point being people often say, no point being unhappy in a relationship but what if its not the relationship that is making the person unhappy but just that they are predisposed to being unhappy and look for something to blame ie the relationship? they just may never be happy. be it a chemical imbalance or just never satisfied, always wondering if there is something more, always looking for 'whats missing' even though they'll probably never find it, etc.

OK thanks - My bad - I just thought you were being snarky - Sorry :)

Why poo? The answer is simply '8 Letters' - People posted 'I like Pie' etc (8 chars) and I took it one step further to 'i like poo'... Then (excuse the pun) it kinda *stuck* and the rest his history :)

My poo persona is indeed an escape from an unhappy life :thumbsup

Didn't you already think this a few months ago?

So then you don't really have a poo fetish?

CurrentlySober has...

And here I thought you were there sitting in diapers pooping yourself daily. :Oh crap

Would be tempting - I'm 5500 miles away from all my friends and loved ones and unable to return :(

And in 100% total honesty - Today is my 9 year anniversary of being deported, so its especially prevalent in my mind today... :(

Maybe a chemical imbalance.I'm never satisfied and have issues

Men are easy to please.. Give us sex and don't bitch too much. Woman on the other hand are why most relationships fail.. because they never want to give it up and they bitch too much..

:1orglaugh

You need to find a chubby Republican girl and settle down. :1orglaugh

I guess talking is key..

Also some people rely too much on someone else, they don't know how to be independent so, they sometimes they just stay together but miserably..

Because they get bored with their partner and miss the single life.

In my personal experience, girs just do not know what they want mostly.

The answer:

http://i.imgur.com/JdOEo7b.jpg

Why were you deported? Why can't you return?

I had a friend who was deported and not supposed to come back but eventually he did and even runs a business here. Not sure how, but he does.

I never - ever - ever - bitch about anything. I'm not about that life. I don't like to argue, I don't like confrontation. If an argument must be done, say what you have to say and let's move on with the day.

Sex - well, that's another story. My legs are were quite often closed. :Oh crap