Marrying A Broad From Abroad....
 

An old friend of mine fell for this cute girl visiting from Russia. He spent about 6 weeks with her here and decided to save a few thousand dollars (which is no easy thing with his low paying job) and go get her and marry her.

He had a really unattractive girlfriend before and this one is definitely like dime compared to his prior 1.2. I think he's completely infatuated with her. He talks about the sex and how she gives him head randomly, and how she loves him, but she lives with some dude in russia she used to fuck?? etc.

I really wish for his sake that the reality is the same as what he sees in his head, but I know it's most likely not the case.

How do I bring him down to earth and get him to take a step back and be clearheaded about this? Is there no hope when those hormones and emotions kick in?

Well if you think he's in bed with a scammer then have him read: http://www.womenrussia.com/blacklist.htm

if not leave him alone, they could be in love... it's ultimately up to them to make it real.

Nah, she's kind of a friend of his family. I guess i should leave it alone. He's showing every chump sign in the book, and i dunno.....I just can't help thinking that if he had more experience with girls he wouldn't be feeling like this and potentially setting himself up for a fall. Bringing a girl to America is serious.

Tell him to have her come live with him. Get her a 6 month visa to stay here and make that a trial run.

yeah fiancee visa is best bet and make sure she is cool

russian woman are nice woman but not stupid ;)

I think there's some kind of waiting period for this, and this kid is buggin out and tryin to circumvent any waiting by marrying her. He wants to have sex with her and keeps talkin about it. He is a former cocaine addict and consequently has an addictive personality. I just want to get through to him and give him the most sound advice so i don't kick myself in the ass later.

And dude above me is right, they're nice but not stupid.

its sad to hear your boyfriend left you and is now playing for the other team.

may i suggest you listen to van halens eruption, write a showtune about your experience then perform felatio upon a stranger you meet at starbucks.

those girls will marry you for a couple years for US citizenship and then split with the dual citizenship and a ton of your money..

Something weird about russian girls, they are 100% about the money.

it will last 3-6 months. she thinks the streets are paved with gold and she just found a meal ticket.. he thinks he is marrying a hot little cum junky that lives to cook and clean... they will both be hit with the cold hard facts of reality once they start living together, the blinders fall off, the language barrier becomes a real obstacle, the cultural differences come into play, the fucking stops, the problems begin and they will both realize that now they have to deal with real life issues.

i have lived in russia most of the last 10 years and i am american. i have seen this so many times that i can tell you more about them and their relationship that either of them can themselves

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh '

and tell him to get real. does any girl live with a guy she is fucking while wanting to marry someone else? dont forget that essentially, people are the same everywhere and their values are mostly the same. its not normal in russia. its not normal in the US. if he can't see that as a problem and thinks a blowjob will make a relationship work in spite of her obviously using him, then there is nothing you can say to him.

whores that whore their way to the US usually want to go home once they realize that the entire country is not just like they saw on Santa Barbara for the last 10 years.

so are american girls as are most other women from other western countries but they wont admit it... :1orglaugh

I think latin girls are bad, but russians are the worst, definitely depends where you grow up i think.. Miami, most girls are like that haha..

but if you grow up in Delaware or Ohio or some place I think its different.

He's russian too.

The 3-6 month thing is exactly what I had in mind though.

sucks. :(