Most guys who have a bad mother mistreat women:
 

Alot of guys who consider girls bitches, sluts and hate on them i find come from a family where the mother isnt as involved.

yes there are bitches and sluts but some men really do dislike any and all women and view them in that way.

we had this convo yesterday and the friends of mine who came from a family where the mother was a big apart of their lives i have never seen them mistreat or trash on women.

my mom was always around and i could never hate on women. i love my women and they in return love me.

what do you think of this topic?

did someone hack ur account again? i was expecting some good comedy here :)

hehe i drank to much tequilla yesterday my brain is in off mode atm. :winkwink:

Well, I admit I've read some books dealing with criminal psychology over the years, and not meaning popular blood filled crap but official sources (=not so flashy / boring reading).

While you can't prevent some things from happening (the popular debate whether there is a gen of evil or whether people become menace during their upbringing), they say that you adapt as much as 90 pct. of your core life values by the time you are 6 years of age - forming your basic subconscious reactions and the view of what is good / evil.

That being said - a complete family and a sense of being cared about logically equals a positive influence during that essential time.

Another thing that's interesting

- some women I know would most likely be labeled as terrible bitches, I was always surprised how they could be bitchy with other men etc. killing them just wouldn't be enough.

But they never behaved like this with me around, I don't know why - seems like unless you cross the line that triggers some bad animal reactions from their side and you treat them with respect, they will MUCH rather do their best to keep being cool in your company, just so you don't have one single reason to view them with disrespect.

great post.

they behave like around me also. it is because we are pimps. alot of guys are douche bags and women would rather give off the perception they are bitches to those types.

im not to sure if i agree with the 6yo and making all your core values. im obviously trying to point out an exception to the rule but what if say a parent left at a young age and then returned at a later date i think it would change someones core values.

for instance a buddy and me were talking about how my dad lived away (even though my parents were still together) and his dad mostly did his own thing. basically how the dad being away wasnt all that big of a deal but if it was our moms away it would have crushed us.

i think same goes for women without a father figure in their life in it changes the way they perceive men. but i bet if that father returned even later in life to add a positive note it would change their core values.

I had a bad father also, so I like 3 holers

I think you're right :)

bad mother can go either way-

neglect/abandonment/non-loving

smothering/over-loving/protective.

and while many beliefs are forged by age 6, add a bad relationship based on lovelust into the mix b/w the age of 16&22 and that will affect the way a male treats/views females. introduce them to porn at an early age and that can also contribute significantly.

a bad father is part&partial of a bad mom.


but for me personally, i had an absentee mom, without getting into details, my reaction to her was to glorify pussy- put it on a pedestal.

had to sort that shit out! so in my experience, the reaction to an uninvolved mom isn't specific.

who doesnt like three holers :winkwink:

totaly right

who knows

obviously those who hate women have had childhood issues.... Not bashing on DirtyDanza but perhaps he can explain it to us...

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