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Sid70 10-25-2010 07:06 AM

Being obsessed with a woman
 
Ever happened to anyone? How long did it take to let go? Fucking painful.

nico-t 10-25-2010 07:12 AM

once you realize that they are all the same which is a fact.

CaptainHowdy 10-25-2010 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 17638585)
once you realize that they are all the same which is a fact.

"Technically" (or a "structurally"), us men "are all the same"... that's the foundation of porn.

anexsia 10-25-2010 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Sid70 (Post 17638567)
Ever happened to anyone? How long did it take to let go? Fucking painful.

Been there, done that, still going through it. I'm crazy about my ex and i'm always there for her...she says i'm still hers and she's in love with me while she's dating someone else :disgust. I'm always there to fix her mistakes but I'm getting tired of it. :helpme

Ethersync 10-25-2010 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by anexsia (Post 17638669)
Been there, done that, still going through it. I'm crazy about my ex and i'm always there for her...she says i'm still hers and she's in love with me while she's dating someone else :disgust. I'm always there to fix her mistakes but I'm getting tired of it. :helpme

If you want a chance of saving the relationship STOP doing all this for her and walk away. Then she may have second thoughts.

TheLegacy 10-25-2010 07:49 AM

Pain only goes away when you find someone else to obsess over.

Agent 488 10-25-2010 07:51 AM

once you are arrested.

Sid70 10-25-2010 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by TheLegacy (Post 17638676)
Pain only goes away when you find someone else to obsess over.

I can read that as being obessed is kinda normal :)

jonnydoe 10-25-2010 08:18 AM

Some wear off quick and some don't...trust me I am old. There will be some that you think of for decades if you are lucky enough.

biris 10-25-2010 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Agent 488 (Post 17638680)
once you are arrested.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

xato 10-25-2010 08:37 AM

The only thing I'm obsessed with is $ and €!

Machete_ 10-25-2010 08:39 AM

women are things.

mrjoint 10-25-2010 08:39 AM

I know it sucks, there is this chick I totally like, but she wants to be nothing more than friends, but we spend more time together than any boyfriend girl friend, yea it sucks

_Richard_ 10-25-2010 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by jonnydoe (Post 17638773)
Some wear off quick and some don't...trust me I am old. There will be some that you think of for decades if you are lucky enough.

that's luck?

god dammit.

O MARINA 10-25-2010 08:49 AM

this thread is full of WINNERS

TCLGirls 10-25-2010 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by mrjoint (Post 17638839)
I know it sucks, there is this chick I totally like, but she wants to be nothing more than friends, but we spend more time together than any boyfriend girl friend, yea it sucks

You are in the "friend zone".

You need to drop her like a bad habit because there is ZERO chance of you banging her once you are in the "friend zone".

pornguy 10-25-2010 09:02 AM

Yeah.. I was 14... Grew out of that.

_Richard_ 10-25-2010 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by TCLGirls (Post 17638917)
You are in the "friend zone".

You need to drop her like a bad habit because there is ZERO chance of you banging her once you are in the "friend zone".

or just be the persons friend? plenty of fish in the sea and all that

John-ACWM 10-25-2010 09:05 AM

It surely happens being obsessed with a woman(or just a thing you want). I remember high school was the place for obsessions :)

O MARINA 10-25-2010 09:06 AM

I was obsessed with a woman once. Then I turned away from the mirror.

TCLGirls 10-25-2010 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 17638932)
or just be the persons friend? plenty of fish in the sea and all that

I would not recommend that. The guy is in love with that girl. He can't "just be friends" with that girl...unless he wants to torture himself listening his friend talk about the 2 guys she banged last night.

Klen 10-25-2010 09:16 AM

I been obsessed few time,but usually it pass if i dont see that person anymore.To me being obsessed i need to see person on regular bases.

american pervert 10-25-2010 09:19 AM

im obsessed with marina.

Tom_PM 10-25-2010 09:29 AM

Just delete her number and email and icq and whatever you got. If she contacts you, ignore it. You're busy looking for a woman who will choose you.

webairalex 10-25-2010 09:37 AM

I would definetly say that your obsession has to stop, women thrive in attention you are feeding her ego man, women can sense that.

CPA37710T 10-25-2010 09:49 AM

like a scar only time can heal, but it'll make u stronger when you're over it.

Badmaash 10-25-2010 09:49 AM

I recommend you get even more obsessed with her, to the point you would jump of a cliff edge and then one day when you get over it just see how cold you are and the amount of chicks you get! Just like every noob webmaster fucks up, you need to learn from this too. BTW there is nothing that any one here do about it and infact you cant do anything about it either, so just risde the wave out of the situation and build lots of websites so that you have moeny to buy you a ferrari and the hottest girls will be licking cocaine of your cock so you can tell her to fuck off!

Sid70 10-25-2010 09:49 AM

I'm sick I'm obsessed with a celebrity :)

mchacal 10-25-2010 10:01 AM

I was sick obsessed with this bitch

http://media.isharemybitch.com/galle...f4b1d592/3.jpg
http://media.isharemybitch.com/galle...f4b0bcd8/6.jpg
http://media.isharemybitch.com/galle...f494c3d9/5.jpg


She was one of my models but decided to stop porn before I could get inside her ass

tom21220 10-25-2010 10:04 AM

The only good way of "Letting Go" is by overwriting by an another woman. All other ways are shitty and painful.

XX_RydeR 10-25-2010 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by O MARINA (Post 17638939)
I was obsessed with a woman once. Then I turned away from the mirror.

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

Cash 10-25-2010 10:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sid70 (Post 17638567)
Ever happened to anyone? How long did it take to let go? Fucking painful.

The obsession for her can last your whole life ...:2 cents:

Angry Jew Cat - Banned for Life 10-25-2010 10:09 AM

it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.
it won't end until you kill her.






:1orglaugh

TheLegacy 10-25-2010 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Sid70 (Post 17638696)
I can read that as being obessed is kinda normal :)

No it's not normal - but since I am not going to change this persons mind in one thread, and they've obviously don't have the balls to get over a woman - then the only option left is to simply find another person to obsess over. Seriously - do we feel we can teach someone to grow up on a chatboard? Never going to happen - so - jokingly just saying to replace the obsession hoping that someday they'll grow up and have a balanced outlook on women and life.

No one is worth the emotional currency - especially after you've broken up with them ( or as it seems in this case, they broke up with you )

_Richard_ 10-25-2010 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by TCLGirls (Post 17638954)
I would not recommend that. The guy is in love with that girl. He can't "just be friends" with that girl...unless he wants to torture himself listening his friend talk about the 2 guys she banged last night.

yea, hormones can be a bitch. my point is if anyone is this wrapped up in someone who states they aren't interested, maybe there is a lesson here somewhere

Sid70 10-25-2010 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by TheLegacy (Post 17639281)
No it's not normal - but since I am not going to change this persons mind in one thread, and they've obviously don't have the balls to get over a woman - then the only option left is to simply find another person to obsess over. Seriously - do we feel we can teach someone to grow up on a chatboard? Never going to happen - so - jokingly just saying to replace the obsession hoping that someday they'll grow up and have a balanced outlook on women and life.

No one is worth the emotional currency - especially after you've broken up with them ( or as it seems in this case, they broke up with you )

I can control my obsession, but it grows on me at times and affects my mood. I treat that as I'm sick in getting unreachable and trying to see if i have bits of that in my real life. I jsut cant be OK with all things normal, I want more.

SpongeBub 10-25-2010 12:01 PM

Try being still in love with your wife 10 years after she died from cancer - that is tough.

Sid70 10-25-2010 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by SpongeBub (Post 17639515)
Try being still in love with your wife 10 years after she died from cancer - that is tough.

There are things that go beyond any imagination, I agree.

atom 10-25-2010 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by SpongeBub (Post 17639515)
Try being still in love with your wife 10 years after she died from cancer - that is tough.

Harsh :(

PornNewz 10-25-2010 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by mchacal (Post 17639117)
I was sick obsessed with this bitch

http://media.isharemybitch.com/galle...f4b1d592/3.jpg
http://media.isharemybitch.com/galle...f4b0bcd8/6.jpg
http://media.isharemybitch.com/galle...f494c3d9/5.jpg


She was one of my models but decided to stop porn before I could get inside her ass

Was it her Kirk Douglas chin that made you obsess?

_Richard_ 10-25-2010 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SpongeBub (Post 17639515)
Try being still in love with your wife 10 years after she died from cancer - that is tough.

she.. is.. speaking.. from.. beyond.. she says to get out more

rough tho :(

Tempest 10-25-2010 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by anexsia (Post 17638669)
Been there, done that, still going through it. I'm crazy about my ex and i'm always there for her...she says i'm still hers and she's in love with me while she's dating someone else :disgust. I'm always there to fix her mistakes but I'm getting tired of it. :helpme

Sounds familiar... Date someone else and watch how fast things change if she really does love you...

27tim 10-25-2010 12:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jonnydoe (Post 17638773)
Some wear off quick and some don't...trust me I am old. There will be some that you think of for decades if you are lucky enough.

Voice of righteousness.

mchacal 10-25-2010 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by PornNewz (Post 17639605)
Was it her Kirk Douglas chin that made you obsess?

No her perfect boobies and bumpy booty

also the fact that she always swallows

emill 10-25-2010 12:48 PM

Obsession is dangers thing man, iam lost many girls because iam soo much emotional, this is fucking bad
iam lost my 2 years relationship with woman couple days ago, and reason is obsession and my mistakes :(
I love her but now is late now i can only drunk :( So be strong and mindful this is my advice !

john FVC 10-25-2010 01:27 PM

Format C

HBKKH 10-25-2010 01:28 PM

time heals all wounds

BlackCrayon 10-25-2010 01:56 PM

is this someone you were in a real relationship with or someone you were chasing after? If the latter, most likely you have built her up into someone she totally isn't. in your mind being with her, everything will be perfect, you will finally be happy or something similar but thats not realty.

mchacal 10-25-2010 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ (Post 17639860)
Act like she is dead. NEVER call her for any reason. Stop hanging out with mutual friends or places. Get rid of all tangible things in your flat/house that connects you both together ie., pictures to bedsheets.

Now pay attention because Daddy Jesus is going to give you valuable advice about women and how to keep the good ones.

Being in my early 40's I've had a lot great women (far more then I deserved) in my life and probably the only one on this board (or few) that actually had to sign a prenuptial when I got married. In short, I married into money.

The formula:

1.NEVER, cry or complain. Be a man and that complaining shit is for pussies. It's hard, most can't do it but NEVER complain about anyone or anything in front of her. In Short, say nothing if being negative is the only alternative.

2. NEVER, be a lazy fat fucking webmaster. If you work out of the house always shower and dress if you were going to work. If she has to leave for her job you've been branded the house bitch, deal with it. In short, I cook dinner everyday or make arrangements for dinner. Also, all mechanical maintenance, trash, yard, etc. are done/arranged instantly when needed. In short, my wife has never filled her tank, changed the oil, or washed her car in the last 3 years.

3. 4-5 days before her period you fuck her like a crazed bunny rabbit, then turn on the affection for next 3 days and then stay out of her way for the rest. Rinse repeat.

Finally, always keep yourself in shape or make a visible effort. The key to keeping a good relationship is having them convinced you don't need them to be happy in life even if it's almost an absurd illusion. Women always want what they can't have and for damn sure don't want another to have whats theirs. :2 cents:

Great advise (and I'm not catholic)

Jason Voorhees 10-25-2010 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TCLGirls (Post 17638917)
You are in the "friend zone".

You need to drop her like a bad habit because there is ZERO chance of you banging her once you are in the "friend zone".

http://i.imgur.com/KG00t.jpg


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