help me, gfy - my lady has a stalker - GoFuckYourself.com

Wolfy · 05-29-2006, 05:54 AM

Not actually my lady, but rather a woman on a forum I own. This guy has gone as far as building a site around her, posted pictures of her on it, photoshopped said images to draw attention to a mole she has (kind of funny, since it's so trivial and childish, but annoying just the same :P), and is constantly harrassing her. He messages her on myspace, my forum, sends her emails from various addresses (so she can't block them), etc... it's starting to fuck with her pretty bad.

Obviously, the best thing to do is ignore him, but I also want to help her get the images removed from his site. I am under the impression that since she took the pictures, she is the copyright owner, and as such can have him served and legally force him to remove the images, but I don't know how to go about it.

I'd like to handle this with as little work on her part as possible, i.e. I don't want to tell her to go to the police department, fill out a report, then go to court for a restraining order, etc etc... I just want to serve the dickweed with some papers and let him know I'm not going to play with his punk ass. How do I go about this in the most efficient way possible?

Thanks for your help everyone.

The Duck · 05-29-2006, 06:13 AM

That sucks man, sorry to hear that.

Darkhorse · 05-29-2006, 07:06 AM

Have you tried banning him from your forum for a start????

Choppa · 05-29-2006, 07:15 AM

u-Bob · 05-29-2006, 07:24 AM

send a C&D to his host....

Spunky · 05-29-2006, 04:41 PM

Phone the cops..but they probably won't do anything

iTEAM · 05-29-2006, 04:45 PM

Send an email to the host.

wizard29 · 05-29-2006, 05:41 PM

can you post some pics so we can see what she looks like? this will help us devise a plan.

wizard29 · 05-29-2006, 05:43 PM

Post #2
Get a restraining order. It sounds like that's the most you can do at this point. If he violates the restraining order you can press charges. Litigation is too expensive and doesn't sound like she'd win

Darkhorse · 05-29-2006, 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wizard29

can you post some pics so we can see what she looks like? this will help us devise a plan.

Cash · 05-30-2006, 12:53 AM

Is she that hot?

Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE · 05-30-2006, 01:00 AM

pics plz

Mr. Pink · 05-30-2006, 05:04 AM

Can't you check his whois and kick the crap out of him with say a blunt axe?

AdPatron · 05-30-2006, 05:24 AM

Yes, we need pics.

Wolfy · 05-30-2006, 07:17 AM

how do I go about doing a C&D? I'm sure there is a proper way to do it and an improper way to do it.

The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to?

And yes, she's hot. Posting her pics here would kind of defeat the purpose of what I'm doing here though :D

Wolfy · 05-30-2006, 07:17 AM

how do I go about doing a C&D? I'm sure there is a proper way to do it and an improper way to do it.

The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to?

And yes, she's hot. Posting her pics here would kind of defeat the purpose of what I'm doing here though :D

masterporndude · 05-31-2006, 12:51 AM

If your that serious about stopping the guy I would hire an attorney
As far as taking down even copyrighted material good luck I have my shit stolen and used all the time and just because I notify them and send out all those emails to their host and all the other places it doesnt mean they will take it down.Sometimes it works out but more often than not I wind up giving up.

Xavierz · 05-31-2006, 12:52 PM

adultsitelaw . com / forms.html (sorry for spaces, under 30 posts)

There are examples that you can use for a C&D, you send one to him to scare him, and you send one to his host (hosts usually dont put up with legal issues so they will most likely take the content off right away or suspend him altogether)

NoHassleSteve · 06-01-2006, 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wolfy

The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to?

I have no idea how well it works... but this is SUPPOSED TO lead to his registar slapping him around or siezing his domain
http://wdprs.internic.net/

writersworld8 · 06-05-2006, 10:09 PM

sorry to hear that.. =( call the cops!

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shahab6 · 06-05-2006, 10:52 PM

If its just some girl you know that comes to your forum, Why don't you let her deal with it?

Latinamistress · 06-05-2006, 11:17 PM

Depending on where you're located calling the cops will be about as useful as doing nothing!
I had a similar situation with a guy last year ... he scared the shit out of me ! I called the police over here in the UK, and they told me a policeman would be around the following day to speak with me. The following day no policeman showed up, so I phoned the station only to be informed that they had changed their mind about visiting me. (obviously also forgot how to work a phone and let me know) They basically told me to sod off ! To start any kind of proceedings yourself, or herself.... You will need a static address! To kick shit out of him you will also need an address. If you opt for the latter and you say whois gives you false information... do make sure you get the right address before you turn up with your baseball bat.

pr3yb14ck · 06-09-2006, 06:59 AM

Hmm... yeah why dont you let her deal with it.

Latinamistress · 06-11-2006, 06:10 AM

obviously because he's formed a friendship with her , and CARES!

thumbnailsource · 06-11-2006, 07:26 AM

Tell her to complain to his hosting company. If he continues hire legal help

05-29-2006, 05:54 AM	#1
Wolfy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 3,574	help me, gfy - my lady has a stalker Not actually my lady, but rather a woman on a forum I own. This guy has gone as far as building a site around her, posted pictures of her on it, photoshopped said images to draw attention to a mole she has (kind of funny, since it's so trivial and childish, but annoying just the same :P), and is constantly harrassing her. He messages her on myspace, my forum, sends her emails from various addresses (so she can't block them), etc... it's starting to fuck with her pretty bad. Obviously, the best thing to do is ignore him, but I also want to help her get the images removed from his site. I am under the impression that since she took the pictures, she is the copyright owner, and as such can have him served and legally force him to remove the images, but I don't know how to go about it. I'd like to handle this with as little work on her part as possible, i.e. I don't want to tell her to go to the police department, fill out a report, then go to court for a restraining order, etc etc... I just want to serve the dickweed with some papers and let him know I'm not going to play with his punk ass. How do I go about this in the most efficient way possible? Thanks for your help everyone.

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05-29-2006, 05:41 PM	#8
wizard29 Moderaterateher Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 103	can you post some pics so we can see what she looks like? this will help us devise a plan.

05-29-2006, 05:43 PM	#9
wizard29 Moderaterateher Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 103	Post #2 Get a restraining order. It sounds like that's the most you can do at this point. If he violates the restraining order you can press charges. Litigation is too expensive and doesn't sound like she'd win

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05-30-2006, 07:17 AM	#15
Wolfy Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 3,574	how do I go about doing a C&D? I'm sure there is a proper way to do it and an improper way to do it. The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to? And yes, she's hot. Posting her pics here would kind of defeat the purpose of what I'm doing here though :D

05-31-2006, 12:51 AM	#17
masterporndude Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 60	If your that serious about stopping the guy I would hire an attorney As far as taking down even copyrighted material good luck I have my shit stolen and used all the time and just because I notify them and send out all those emails to their host and all the other places it doesnt mean they will take it down.Sometimes it works out but more often than not I wind up giving up. __________________ Buy Theirs Sell Yours

05-31-2006, 12:52 PM	#18
Xavierz Registered User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 8	adultsitelaw . com / forms.html (sorry for spaces, under 30 posts) There are examples that you can use for a C&D, you send one to him to scare him, and you send one to his host (hosts usually dont put up with legal issues so they will most likely take the content off right away or suspend him altogether)

06-05-2006, 10:09 PM	#20
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06-05-2006, 11:17 PM	#22
Latinamistress Registered User Join Date: May 2006 Location: uk Posts: 24	Depending on where you're located calling the cops will be about as useful as doing nothing! I had a similar situation with a guy last year ... he scared the shit out of me ! I called the police over here in the UK, and they told me a policeman would be around the following day to speak with me. The following day no policeman showed up, so I phoned the station only to be informed that they had changed their mind about visiting me. (obviously also forgot how to work a phone and let me know) They basically told me to sod off ! To start any kind of proceedings yourself, or herself.... You will need a static address! To kick shit out of him you will also need an address. If you opt for the latter and you say whois gives you false information... do make sure you get the right address before you turn up with your baseball bat. __________________ EARN 20$ per FREE life time sign up. Promote Free cam chat and earn! The best bit is they payout, weekly and on time!

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