Meh, that's nothing.

My fiance was with Lex for 6 yrs and did scenes with Mandingo... And within 1 week of meeting me she broke up with Lex and moved out. That was almost 5 yrs ago.

If dick size intimidates you, well then I feel sorry for you.

As for all pornstars being "bat shit" crazy or meth addicts, I can tell you that this is simply not true. Most are shut-ins that rarely leave the house though. After a while all the public attention and stares starts to wear on them.

Vanessa spends about 15 hours a day working on her sites, which she designs and maintains herself. She shoots, edits, authors all her own DVDs and does all the graphic design. And she's done this for the 14 yrs she's been in the business. Not to mention camming when she has a chance...

As for being with someone that has been with sooo many sexual partners... Well she's still catching up to me, I was a bartender for 8 yrs before going to law school.

And at 41 I could care less whom my family and friends like or dont like. They loved my ex-wife but she was a witch behind close doors.

But yes dating a pornstar isnt for everyone, especially those that are insecure, immature or worried about what the world will think...

I prefer the honesty and the openness of being with someone that doesnt make sex an issue with everything. I get to do whatever I want and I never have to worry about finding my stuff on the front lawn.

You guys can keep the civilian girls.... I know at least Robbie will back me up on this one...

in other words you like being with a pornstar because you can fuck other women and she can't say shit about it.

It is quite interesting indeed that some persons in this industry appear to be averse to dating the very women that we promote.

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I used to feel like Pornlaw.
I don't anymore.


Undiagnosed mental illness is what makes these girls get into this business.
They all self medicate in one way or another.

Pornstars have the unique ability to compartmentalize- and block out all emotion or feeling to concentrate on the task at hand.

Like Michael Jordan when he was in his "zone"

Once a woman makes money with their pussy, it's all over.
They never get used to working a real job again and only exploit men with it.

Period

"Your ideas intrigue me and I want to subscribe to your newsletter" (Homer S.)

Basically I would agree with you but I have a unique situation. I have only been involved with two pornstars seriously so I have limited "relationship" experience.

Anyone looking to be Captain Sav-A-Ho... I can tell you that you will be disappointed. That what I tried with the first girl. I though she needed to be saved... I ended up very disappointed in what transpired between us.

But I didnt give up. I just changed my attitude and found one that had more to offer besides her pussy.

I guess it also depends on what you consider a "real" job. Since we started dating Vanessa has only performed in a handful of scenes - mostly with women though. Most of what she does everyday is exactly what most of you on this board do - design, maintain, operate and update her websites and social networking sites to push traffic. Seems pretty normal to me but probably not to real civilians. She realized long ago that being in front of the camera as a limited shelf life and she has taught herself everything. Is she 1 in a 100 ? Probably, but there are plenty of other women in the industry that are doing the same.

Will she always use her "pussy" to make money - I hope so - one way or another. Just like I will always use my mind to make my money. She would be miserable with a real civilian job and I would never ask her to change. She may not be in front of the camera for much longer but as she jokes - she will be shooting porn from her wheelchair.

So when Im 70 and there's naked 18yr olds running around my house as she is directing a scene I will consider myself very lucky... LOL

I'd hate to pull my dick out and find old cum crumbs on my dick.

Vanessa seems like a cool chick.
Tell her I said hi. I'm the guy from screwedupmovies, her number one affiliate way back in the day.

at least he is basing his opinion on personal experiences, what are you basing your opinion on? Shit you talk about with your friends who know nothing about this industry?

What did you do meet a couple 'porn stars' at a show one time and came to the conclusion that they are all dirty fuck machines with no soul? I'm willing to bet that MOST don't work weekly, probably closer to monthly for the most part and probably getting less dick than the average skank you can dig up from plenty of fish or the local club these days so singling them out and calling them dirty only proves that you don't know what you're talking about here.

also, not every guy has a purity fetish... I wouldn't be caught dead with a girl who hasn't had some good 'experience'...

50%(fiddy) chance to fuck the same broad as Charlie Sheen erases all those bad things :winkwink: