Take her to a set with you so she can see you're not doing anything with the models

Just answered your own question. If this is marriage material compromise is okay like she takes it up the pooper and you switch gigs. But if you'll be miserable by switching gigs than fuck that. You alter yourself once and it will happen again. Tell her you'll quit after she cooks for ya and has amazing sex with ya, soon as ya bust say get the fuck out. When she questions why say you don't like my gig so I'm just gonna start bangin all the models cause they don't give me shit. :2 cents:

had a really young girl flip shit on me today for turning down her advances

we're "over" for the 4th time in a month. apparently its "over" every weekend that I spend with a different girl. lol

you shouldnt have to defend yourself. girls hating on porn is so 90s. You tell her you are disappointed at her racism towards your art & that its over. If she really liked you she'll come around, & if not, it was over anyway.

tell her, you lied. if you want to save ur relationship.

Best advice so far, something I would say myself.

Tell her to read this thread.

Fuck the "it's so 90s". Is it so 90s hiding shit behind your gfs or wives back? Use your fuckin' head man!
Wouldn't have to defend yourself if ya told her straight up. A more viable excuse would be to tell her you didn't know her well enough to lay out your life story. I'm sure she's got some epic skeletons floatin' around herself.

agreed:thumbsup

Don't worry, she'll get used to it.

what is more important to you, now pick it

you got to get her in one. then she can't say anything.

I had the exact thing happen to me. So I got one of those hidden camera alarm clocks and videoed our next love making session. I watermarked her cell number on the video and uploaded it to all of Manwin tubes. I packed all her shit into a big box and moved it out to the side of the road. I blocked her number and got a restraining order. Problem solved!

Was shooting when I met my wife. I told her upfront... She had a decision to make. Needless to say, she chose well. :pimp

Before her I had other girls try to flip the situation saying "If I was shooting naked guys would you be ok with it?" I never fell for those hypothetical traps. I was more concerned on making money not pleasing some random chick that I fucking at the time.

cool story bro

Kind of rough on your blow up doll, weren't you!

i like poo

don't mention anything about it first - wait until she does... give her some time to think about it...

so you saw the video

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:thumbsup

You said it yourself. You've been together for over a year, and yet you didn't mention to her over that time that you were interested in getting into shooting adult? You didn't ask what she thought? Had no thought it might affect your relationship? I would also be pretty pissed. It's not like you were hiding a second job as a car salesman from her.

Perhaps if you found out she was a PA or makeup artist on porn sets for the last six months without telling you... maybe that would be an unwelcome surprise?

you should kick her to the curb. but you asking people in the business. not only would I not date someone who felt that way I dont like having people like that as friends.