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lazycash 04-25-2014 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer (Post 20062514)

I didn't hear this until today. Definitely gonna spend some time looking at what else he's done and written.

I try and listen to ET at least once a day. Sure some of his stuff is cliche, but his delivery is very motivating.

CyberHustler 04-25-2014 04:42 PM

Some people just suck at certain shit. Like I cant cook for shit, even with instructions, but I can get them ebony sign ups tho.

Jel 04-25-2014 05:17 PM

Nice thread, and

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer (Post 20062668)
"Whether you believe you can or cannot.... you're right"

BOOM! spot on.

edgeprod 04-25-2014 05:32 PM

Nice thread idea. :thumbsup

Relentless 04-25-2014 08:02 PM

Ja$on, terrific post. One of the best I've seen on here in a while. Thanks.

One thing I'd add is look for projects that integrate with your other existing projects. I have a hand in a bunch of different things, and if they weren't integrated it would be impossible.

The way to make it work is to find projects you can integrate so that an hour invested in one of them also counts as fifteen minutes in another and 40 minutes in another and 10 minutes in a fourth one, and so on.

Any time a project you do yourself is taking your time and focus away from another project rather than stacking value, it's likely that you are better off doing one or the other instead of both.

TheSquealer 04-25-2014 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by L-Pink (Post 20062603)
And the changes sometimes won't make sense. Things just change despite your efforts. Always keep this in the back of your mind and be ready. It's cost me in the past.

...never forget that momentum is a cruel mistress. She can turn on a dime or the smallest mistake. She is ever searching for the weak place in your armor, that one tiny thing you forgot to prepare for
this nike commercial was great too.

Diomed 04-25-2014 09:12 PM

What a faggy fucking thread.

It's a shame good taste doesn't relegate itself to more people.

Perhaps it's just me.. but rarely in my life have I thought of myself in the second person.. and I think it good taste not to. Also to not take yourself too seriously.

The only thing worse than that are people who ask "why".

Fuck yourself, and be a mature - responsible - human being. Keep shit real and you'll be just fine.

xxxjay 04-25-2014 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer (Post 20062485)
I came across this watching a Muay Thai video and it was the background audio to people training. I looked it up to find the source. Very thought provoking (or certainly should be)

If you find yourself disagreeing or irritated with what he's saying or think he's just flat out wrong, you'll be a loser until you get it.

There is always competition.
There are always hardships.
There are always changing markets and environments.
There are always hurdles.
There will always be some wins.
With those wins will come many crushing defeats.
You will inevitably fail at most of the ventures you try.
Great income streams eventually fade and die as everything around you evolves and changes.



The only question that remains after its all said and done is "how bad do you want it?"



The truth is that most of you don't want it bad enough to start taking personal responsibility.

You just don't.

You just aren't the guy who hasn't slept in 3 days because you're so engrossed in what you are doing that all you can think of is launching it.

You just aren't the guy who will watch that project fail and jump right into the next with equal energy and enthusiasm.

You just aren't the guy who has the drive and the determination to succeed.

You just aren't the guy that is strong enough to stand on your own two feet, look in the mirror, blame yourself and stop blaming others.

To stop blaming tubes.

To stop blaming piracy.

To stop blaming surfers.

To stop blaming credit card processors.

To stop blaming anything and everything else besides yourself.

Most of you just simply aren't that guy... of your large group, most of you never will be that guy.

As an alternative to the blood, sweat and sacrifice it takes to succeed, you'll just call those who do give it 110% and risk it all... "greedy" and "cheaters" and "liars" and "thieves" because that's how you choose to deal with your personal shame.


I blame the tubes.......











for sending me so much joins....







every day...

romn 04-25-2014 10:32 PM

I go by this:

Work Hard
Play Hard

Paul 04-27-2014 05:06 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 20062692)
well if you're speaking purely about adult, i guess i shouldn't comment. i stopped doing adult for the most part in 2004. the same challenges exist elsewhere but i got tired of trying to sell a product that was given away for free. i'm guessing you're the kind of guy who would sooner die than admit that someone else might have valid point.

Until you change your defeatist attitude you're never going to succeed :2 cents:

Watch this for some inspiration


Paul 04-27-2014 05:13 AM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer (Post 20062704)
Everyone has issues. Everyone struggles. Everyone builds, watched it fall apart and then has to choose whether or not to rebuild. The choices of "what is my next move" is all yours, no matter how you frame them.

Getting knocked down in life is a given...

Getting up and moving forward is a choice.

pornmasta 04-27-2014 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer (Post 20062485)

To stop blaming tubes.

To stop blaming piracy.

To stop blaming surfers.

To stop blaming credit card processors.

To stop blaming anything and everything else besides yourself.

off course, as long as money is in motion there is nobody to blame, just make better movies and the money will come in and finally you'll be able to pay your debts....

pornmasta 04-27-2014 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer (Post 20062485)
To stop blaming piracy.
...

To stop blaming credit card processors.

you are right, just send someone hitman to your competitor and make your own payment system: be a competitor of Visa to make... porn.. yes good idea... :upsidedow

Ferus 04-27-2014 05:24 AM

1 - "Success consists of getting up just one more time than you fall.
2 - Everything you do is experience. If you dont know how to learn from it, it's your own fault

tony286 04-27-2014 05:59 AM

Im curious what do you do in adult?

Dead 04-27-2014 06:30 AM

This may be the best thread I have ever read on GFY.......

JA$ON 04-27-2014 08:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Relentless (Post 20063170)
Ja$on, terrific post. One of the best I've seen on here in a while. Thanks.

One thing I'd add is look for projects that integrate with your other existing projects. I have a hand in a bunch of different things, and if they weren't integrated it would be impossible.

The way to make it work is to find projects you can integrate so that an hour invested in one of them also counts as fifteen minutes in another and 40 minutes in another and 10 minutes in a fourth one, and so on.

Any time a project you do yourself is taking your time and focus away from another project rather than stacking value, it's likely that you are better off doing one or the other instead of both.

Fantastic Add !!!

And in the same basic theme is to find projects that are not NEW. And what I mean is, some of our most successful projects have not been starting something new, building new sites etc etc, but recognizing a missed opportunity in either one of our existing projects OR in someone else's. Example....

We had a friend who is, by anyones definition, a massive whale (Id guess 300 sales a day....and there are more guys out there like this than everyone thinks). He was trucking along doing his thing and we had developed something that we were using for our sites that we saw could work for him. It basically took advantage of his existing flow. Without breaking it down in to much detail, lol, we saw an opportunity in the flow of his join path (which was about a 4 page process) Now we all know you loose a % of users with every step / page, but what page 3 told us was that everyone who completed it was interested, to some degree, his product. Now page 4 was a CC page and scared a good % of them off. So we saw the opportunity to market to those users who did not go on to join with a VERY similar product. Nothing fancy (well the method was fancy, but not the product)....just "they might like this better than what he offered". It in NO WAY changed or effected his path / sales, but by marketing to these "lost" users who had started, but not finished, we generated him an additional 40-50 sales a day. Look at how many people click an add...what % go on to buy? A VERY small %. Thats a LOT of people that on some level were interested. That is an opportunity! Anyway, it was FOUND money for him. Id say this went on for 2-3 years. So by recognizing the opportunity and 20 min of programing time on his part, we put an additional few million dollars in his pocket and more than enough in our own.

Those deals are the best, lol. Working SMART and not to hard :) I just wish they came around more often then they do, hahahahha.

Ju$th00kuP 04-29-2014 04:04 AM

Eric Thomas is the man. Bump for the motivation. ;)

SomeCreep 04-29-2014 04:23 AM

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Originally Posted by JA$ON (Post 20064665)
Fantastic Add !!!

And in the same basic theme is to find projects that are not NEW. And what I mean is, some of our most successful projects have not been starting something new, building new sites etc etc, but recognizing a missed opportunity in either one of our existing projects OR in someone else's. Example....

We had a friend who is, by anyones definition, a massive whale (Id guess 300 sales a day....and there are more guys out there like this than everyone thinks). He was trucking along doing his thing and we had developed something that we were using for our sites that we saw could work for him. It basically took advantage of his existing flow. Without breaking it down in to much detail, lol, we saw an opportunity in the flow of his join path (which was about a 4 page process) Now we all know you loose a % of users with every step / page, but what page 3 told us was that everyone who completed it was interested, to some degree, his product. Now page 4 was a CC page and scared a good % of them off. So we saw the opportunity to market to those users who did not go on to join with a VERY similar product. Nothing fancy (well the method was fancy, but not the product)....just "they might like this better than what he offered". It in NO WAY changed or effected his path / sales, but by marketing to these "lost" users who had started, but not finished, we generated him an additional 40-50 sales a day. Look at how many people click an add...what % go on to buy? A VERY small %. Thats a LOT of people that on some level were interested. That is an opportunity! Anyway, it was FOUND money for him. Id say this went on for 2-3 years. So by recognizing the opportunity and 20 min of programing time on his part, we put an additional few million dollars in his pocket and more than enough in our own.

Those deals are the best, lol. Working SMART and not to hard :) I just wish they came around more often then they do, hahahahha.

I know who you're talking about. It's a big sponsor with a large network of paysites and some very nice tubes.


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