I tell them I make enough money to buy and sell their entire family so STFU and blow me. That usually works. :)

several times > 3

Go to the right country and you can do that with even modest wealth.

It depends on where you live. When I still lived in Canada, plentyoffish worked fine. obviously lots of crap, but I had a 3 year relationship from that site.

Since coming to Europe, I used Badoo and met my current lady on there. The language barrier keeps me from using local options, but for multi-national, I can attest that both of those work.

I have a lot of friends who use Tinder for both hooking up and LT, but you better have some killer pictures ready.

Heh, why do you think I spend so much time in Europe? :)

Plenty Of Fish scares me. LOL SO MANY whacknuts on there! I will check out Badoo as I am looking for a European girl. Know anyone? LOL

(As for Tinder I stay away exactly for what you said. Maybe if I get some professional shots taken. Selfies ain't gonna cut it there. LOL)

Easiest way to find girls.....
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There is a member of this forum who is quite the pickup artist. He uses tinder almost exclusively now and I've seen him line up 2-3 girls a day from there and bang a couple a day off there. Obviously, your Facebook profile needs to be in order though as a first step.

Yeah that's the other thing: no Facebook. The idea of ex-girlfriends or long lost loser friends (who I kicked out of my life for a reason) might track me down. I suppose I should bite the bullet and do it but.....ugh, it's fucking FACEbook man! LOL

Yes, Hobbit cars are great conversation starters. :)

Just throw up a bunch of travel pics, pics of you with other people, pic of you doing interesting things and so on. conversation starters, shows you're reasonably successful and worldly, shows you are not socially retarded (have friend, play well with others etc). Pics where the idea that you are leading others is immensely helpful. Show a lot of pics with you and other girls (perhaps the most important) So... You show that other girls are into you and lots of hem (you've been vetted numerous times, also shows scarcity and social proof) humor, intelligence, great social skills, interesting/adventurous life, leader of men, financially secure etc. never brag, never acknowledge success - let the profile do it all for you.

Then.... just meet and be confident in everything you do and say. Bragging is weakness, poor body language shows insecurity, the way you talk can show insecurity, how you interact with others can show insecurity ... imagine you are James Bond and act accordingly, comfortable, relaxed as if you are the prize and you don't care which way things go because you are just a confident, interesting guy, enjoying the evening and company.

how about Tinder :)

Something doesn't quite add up in here.

But to sum it up; it helps if you are the king of the world. Though, if you are, why to post you being a king in the Facebook? Everybody already knows that you are the king and you already have good harem.

What about if you are not the king? Or your adventurous life is taking pics about your food and posting it to Facebook?

Well yeah, ive been reading your posts for a long time... you can't add.

I am an average guy as Sly can tell you all and I always have girls that that others would think are way out of my league. It's about personality and confidence and understanding how attraction works.

Well, attraction is not all about personality and confidence, unless you also claim that you date chicks (or even men) way down you league (you think you are the only one in this game?). Anyhow, that confidence and personality doesn't have that much to do with what you wrote, unless it is all about just building a image about it in Facebook. Also, it won't help most guys to suggest that you should be or at least act to be the kind of a man that really applies only to few men. Leader of men and that stuff.

What you can really do, is to game up your game in your head, so that you can get max out of yourself, but it won't change what you are, in good or bad. If this gaming up stuff what you wrote brings you confidence, then sure, use it. But you can get most of it by understanding what you are doing; that is more about gaming yourself than others. Facebook being a media, is mostly about gaming others.

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