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Paul Markham 07-22-2009 01:27 AM

For those who want to know how I'm doing the news is, bad. The chemo is kicking in and I'm very weak, the radiation is starting to effect the saliva in my mouth, also lost my appetite. Only a few days in and a long way to go. :(

mikesinner 07-22-2009 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 16087204)
It happened to a close British friend of mine living is the UK.
He was with a big multinational who decided to cut senior staff and he lost his cover.
Between getting new covered he discovered he had prostate cancer.
All he had in the US was tests, total bill $20,000.
The estimated bill for treating the cancer was $80,000.
He lived the American dream and does not have $100,000 in the bank.

He tried to get Medicaid and was turned down.
He's late 50s, single, no dependents and out of work, even though he will find employment when the cancer is cleared.
During his nearly 30 years in the US he had full cover and paid full taxes on wages that were well into 6 figures.
No insurance company would touch him and cover the cancer.

He flew to the UK and as a British citizen had an operation to remove the tumor.
The UK specialists said it was the cheapest, best and most certain way of ridding him of the prostate cancer and the American recommendations would of not been as good.
He had radiation treatment to make double sure it was gone.
He flew back to the US to take a job and flew back to the UK for check ups and a bit of further treatment.
Total cost for this was the cost of the air flights, I think less than $5,000.

In the US he was a dead man. In the UK he was cured as every other UK citizen. It's a service with a lot less thrills and a lot less cost to all who pay, but the survival rates are far higher. Less money for a better system. And as you can see a system I believe in.

In Czech I'm covered by the CZ National Health system. Over and above my National Insurance tax it costs $1.50 a visit to the doctor or hospital. Today the hospital car park cost $20. :1orglaugh

Will cut that cost down. LOL

It's funny to watch the commercials on American TV where they try to say how bad free healthcare is because the people in power would rather keep the greed based system we have right now.

Matyko 07-22-2009 02:32 AM

Paul, very good to hear such good news, keep it real!!!

Paul Markham 07-22-2009 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by mikesinner (Post 16092589)
It's funny to watch the commercials on American TV where they try to say how bad free healthcare is because the people in power would rather keep the greed based system we have right now.

Very true, they are selling a lie which is nothing unusual in advertising and marketing. But this lie effects your life and health. I am very biased against the US system. 21 years ago a small hospital in O.C. California, kept my father in their ward to do tests when they should of immediately sent him by helicopter. He had heart problems, he had had open heart surgery a year earlier, and the small hospital were not equipped to treat him.

The delay could of cost him his life, it did not help. My Mother was presented with a bill for the tests, she did not pay.

The problem is when you have a health system based on profit instead of curing you can run into trouble.

Paul Markham 08-04-2009 09:23 AM

Just a short update to those who are interested. Getting the chemo and radiation treatment. My mouth us really drying up and I'm having troubles eating, few things have any taste at all now and my appetite is screwed. Got my weight up to 90 kilos and I will probably lose a lot of it soon.

Friday before last I fainted and go taken to hospital where the blood tests showed a lack of potassium in my system so I had a week of 2 hour infusions to put it right.

So I'm not around much, even though today is a good one.

k0nr4d 08-04-2009 09:27 AM

You probably shouldn't jinx it by saying you are winning.

_Richard_ 08-04-2009 09:30 AM

Congrats on the good news :) keep on truckn'

Elli 08-04-2009 10:16 AM

Hang in there Paul. My boyfriend's mother went through two rounds of chemo and she reported much the same symptoms. It's not fun, but it's worthwhile. Take lots of vitamins and such. *cheers*

yuu.design 08-04-2009 12:19 PM

cool doode! great news! good for u!

Raf1 08-04-2009 12:26 PM

Good to hear you're getting better

Kenny B! 08-04-2009 01:18 PM

Good to hear Paul, fight the fucker!

J. Falcon 08-04-2009 02:48 PM

Thats great to hear Paul, I wish you all the luck in the world. Sincerely.

Hentaikid 08-04-2009 04:43 PM

Stuff your face with food even if it tastes nothing, keep your strength up. Just imagine it's English cooking :P

Fletch XXX 08-04-2009 04:45 PM

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Manowar 08-04-2009 04:59 PM

awesome to hear

Lace 08-04-2009 05:39 PM

Glad to hear things are getting better! Just keep your head up - a lot is in your mind IMO.

And be sure to live your life to the fullest, being thankful for every day you get to spend here with your family and friends. :thumbsup

Paul Markham 08-04-2009 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 16146698)
Good to hear you doing good. Not sure if you remember but we were working on some banners for you right as you were undergoing the stuff and it was just left in the air so when you get back together and feeling good, email me to continue that!

http://15dollargalleries.com/order.html (instantly delivered to my desktop)

Will get onto it today, got a few I want done.

Paul Markham 08-04-2009 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Hentaikid (Post 16146693)
Stuff your face with food even if it tastes nothing, keep your strength up. Just imagine it's English cooking :P

English cooking is great, Balti, Korma, Tandori, Sweet and sour, kebabs to mention a few. :1orglaugh

Thanks to everyone else. early here but I thing it might be another good day.

WarChild 08-04-2009 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Paul Markham (Post 16092499)
Well he tells a different story. Maybe he could of got the treatment and ended up owing a fortune. Medicaid turned him down. The US hospital was presenting bills that were very big ad in the opinion of the UK specialist were carrying out treatment that would not of cured it as easily or cheaply as an operation.

Still think the system here in Europe is far better. Not perfect but better for less money.

I guess it all depends on perspective, doesn't it?

If you have money, and you get cancer, do you fly to the Mayo Clinic or Prague?

WarChild 08-04-2009 08:51 PM

http://www.webmd.com/cancer/news/200...ary-by-country

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July 16, 2008 -- Where you live plays a role in cancer survival, according to a new study that shows the U.S., Japan, and France recorded the highest survival rates among 31 nations for four types of cancer. Algeria had the lowest survival rates for all four cancers.

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The highest survival rates were found in the U.S. for breast and prostate cancer, in Japan for colon and rectal cancers in men, and in France for colon and rectal cancers in women, Coleman's team reports.

So there you go. Your sample set of one person with prostate cancer getting treated in the UK is leading you to believe that the UK is better suited for treating prostate cancer. In reallity, and as demonstrated by research derived from a sample size of more than 2 million, it's not true.

VeriSexy 08-04-2009 09:46 PM

Good to hear, congrats

JeremyB 08-05-2009 12:31 AM

Paul - even though you're a gobby git, I really hope you pull through this. After all, who else is going to rehash the "Content is King!" argument once every six months? ;-))

All the best.

Paul Markham 08-05-2009 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 16147307)
I guess it all depends on perspective, doesn't it?

If you have money, and you get cancer, do you fly to the Mayo Clinic or Prague?

I'm getting looked after well by the hospital thank you.

oceania 08-05-2009 11:41 AM

love those kind of stories! Great news! Glad you're on the winning side of that battle!

evie 08-21-2009 11:56 AM

Just small update on Paul.

Good positive thought is that we are half way thru radio therapy and there is only tree weeks to go.

The not so good news is that Paul is feeling worse and worse and you may not see him around the boards for while. He feels tired all the time and being fed by the tube straight to his stomach.

Boobgirl 08-21-2009 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by evie (Post 16218199)
Just small update on Paul.

Good positive thought is that we are half way thru radio therapy and there is only tree weeks to go.

The not so good news is that Paul is feeling worse and worse and you may not see him around the boards for while. He feels tired all the time and being fed by the tube straight to his stomach.

Good to see you here Eva, and we will cross our fingers for Paul. Keep fighting thru the treatment!!

ascii 08-21-2009 02:36 PM

rock out. fight the power brother.

MaDalton 08-21-2009 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by evie (Post 16218199)
Just small update on Paul.

Good positive thought is that we are half way thru radio therapy and there is only tree weeks to go.

The not so good news is that Paul is feeling worse and worse and you may not see him around the boards for while. He feels tired all the time and being fed by the tube straight to his stomach.

sucks to hear that - keep fighting you two

Stefan

Elli 08-21-2009 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by evie (Post 16218199)
Just small update on Paul.

Good positive thought is that we are half way thru radio therapy and there is only tree weeks to go.

The not so good news is that Paul is feeling worse and worse and you may not see him around the boards for while. He feels tired all the time and being fed by the tube straight to his stomach.

We'll be here when he's ready to come back. Keep up the good fight!

Paul Markham 08-22-2009 12:04 AM

Feeling a little bit better today, but not going to be running a marathon. :1orglaugh

I thought chemo was bad, radiation therapy is worse by a long way. The inside of my mouth is burned from the radiation and I can't eat. So getting few via a plastic tube fitted to my stomach.

Most of the time I sit and read, sleep or watch DVDs, not enough energy to do anything else. Today's my birthday and can't even have a cake. :1orglaugh

Am fighting the cancer all the way and keeping my spirits high. :thumbsup

camchoice 08-22-2009 01:09 AM

Happy Birthday Paul
Hang in there... You'll beat it :thumbsup

Paul Markham 08-25-2009 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by camchoice (Post 16220471)
Happy Birthday Paul
Hang in there... You'll beat it :thumbsup

Thanks Camchoice. 59 has to be one of the birthday parties I will want to forget. :1orglaugh


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