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The Duck 02-01-2010 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by k0nr4d (Post 16461877)
He still doesn't know as far as Im aware...
Honestly, I think fuck it dude. You want to stress out wondering if she is fucking someone for the next year? Think about it. Nowadays you are lucky to live to 80. Let's say you are around 25 right now (I don't know your age, just guessing). Your dick will stop working at say 60, and you'll be unattractive and gross at around 45?

You've got maybe 20 years left. You are gonna waste 5% of that wondering if shes cheating on you, just so she can come back and dump you anyways? Just break up now and get it over with. It will be much easier to get over her if shes on the other side of the planet and you don't have to see or speak to her.

Logic worthy of a programmer :)

frank7799 02-01-2010 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16463107)
right now ive got a conversation with her, one of those internet convos where someone is getting disconnected every fucking minute. Is australia a third world country or something? Jesus fucking christ

Itīs hard to hold the line if you get fucked in the ass and suck dick at the same time.

OK, I hope for you that itīs technical problems causing this.:)

nolongerexists 02-01-2010 09:12 AM

so she cheated? :D

MetaMan 02-01-2010 09:31 AM

ya so what happened?

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Originally Posted by DatingGold (Post 16463851)
If it was that serious then she wouldn't have gone. :2 cents: Listen to Quantum-X dont wait around. Do your own thing then see where you two are in a year. Either way you will have to do your own thing eventually it all just depends how many months you want to make yourself stress out.

Ur in a lose-lose situation. Suck it up and let her go for a year.

this point was key you never leave someone you supposedly love for a year. that just doesnt make sense. that means she is looking for more and just having you as a backup until she finds "what she is looking for".

give us the 411! you can make a diff in some other dudes life from wasting his time. alot of people have been cheated and used no biggie. when it happens to you it teaches what you need to do for yourself first and foremost.

nico-t 02-01-2010 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by blindzior (Post 16802148)
so she cheated? :D

yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

MetaMan 02-01-2010 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802216)
yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

so is life.

the fucked up thing is she prob held it from you. so while she is off doing her own thing you are at home being faithful.

xxweekxx 02-01-2010 09:37 AM

fuckin ho'

Rui 02-01-2010 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 16457670)
she sounds young...chances are she'll come back thinking she has 'changed' and has grown out of you and now needs someone more experienced and mature (or some useless bullshit she just wants to spout to justify cheating on you repeatedly).

Had that happen to me and saw that "movie" lots of times with other people...

That pretty much covers it..

Move on or be prepared to daily mindfucks :helpme that will most likely end up in nada.

Pornopat 02-01-2010 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802085)
You were all right on the money. Out with the old, in with the new!

A sadder and a wiser man, He rose the morrow morn.

nico-t 02-01-2010 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 16802221)
so is life.

the fucked up thing is she prob held it from you. so while she is off doing her own thing you are at home being faithful.

exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

nolongerexists 02-01-2010 09:51 AM

have some trust in GFY adivces next time :)

MetaMan 02-01-2010 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802256)
exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback. :thumbsup

nextri 02-01-2010 10:09 AM

it was doomed all along

BradM 02-01-2010 10:12 AM

she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

Rui 02-01-2010 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802256)
exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

I doubt that was the 1st time, reading your post almost gives the idea you empathize with her and are willing to forget she cheated on you... :disgust

nico-t 02-01-2010 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Rui (Post 16802392)
reading your post almost gives the idea you empathize with her and are willing to forget she cheated on you... :disgust

nope, you got the wrong impression then.

_Richard_ 02-01-2010 10:37 AM

sorry to hear man, hopefully you two can figure it out when she gets back

BradM 02-01-2010 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 16802425)
sorry to hear man, hopefully you two can figure it out when she gets back

lol
congrats to the wieners.

L-Pink 02-01-2010 10:47 AM

Are you still having boner problems?


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joshuawk 02-01-2010 10:54 AM

ahhh poor men....

I suggest you buy every Too Short CD ever released and study it.

digifan 02-01-2010 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by MisterPeabody (Post 16462905)
She's in AUSTRALIA and you're wondering if she's thinking about you, waiting for you, etc? DUDE - have you SEEN Australian men?

Why, I love the Crock Dundee figure :):pimp

_Richard_ 02-01-2010 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BradM (Post 16802427)
lol
congrats to the wieners.

:upsidedow:upsidedow:upsidedow

_Richard_ 02-01-2010 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by BradM (Post 16802322)
she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

:upsidedow:upsidedow:upsidedow

nico-t 02-01-2010 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 16802308)
yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback. :thumbsup

:thumbsup:thumbsup:thumbsup

frank7799 02-01-2010 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802408)
nope, you got the wrong impression then.

May I ask how old you are?

RadicalSights 02-01-2010 12:11 PM

Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

It will make her feel like the useless whore that you already know she is.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 16802308)
only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

They are called Sociopaths

fuzebox 02-01-2010 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802085)
You were all right on the money. Out with the old, in with the new!

:1orglaugh :thumbsup

Some lessons have to be learned the hard way.

96ukssob 02-01-2010 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by blindzior (Post 16802148)
so she cheated? :D

Quote:

Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802216)
yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

never trust women :2 cents:

MetaMan 02-01-2010 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by RadicalSights (Post 16802763)
Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

It will make her feel like the useless whore that you already know she is.

BINGO

there is no better feeling then when an EX everyone 6 months comes back like clockwork and you fuck them then tell them you cant talk to them anymore.

make sure you keep your feelings in check or else it can fuck you up though. LOLZ

MetaMan 02-01-2010 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RadicalSights (Post 16802763)
They are called Sociopaths

frig i just read up on the full definition and it blew my mind so true.

baddog 02-01-2010 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by BradM (Post 16802322)
she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

Seriously? They are both too young for a monogamous relationship, kind of like your situation.

frank7799 02-01-2010 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 16802876)
Seriously? They are both too young for a monogamous relationship, kind of like your situation.

Quoted for truth.

dav3 02-01-2010 12:35 PM

Think of all the poon you can smash now, 100% guilt free!

O MARINA 02-01-2010 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802085)
You were all right on the money.

........................

Quote:

Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 16802210)
ya so what happened?

this point was you never leave someone you supposedly love for a year.


nico-t 02-01-2010 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by m4yadult (Post 16802729)
May I ask how old you are?

28 already.... she is 7 yrs younger so i shouldve seen this coming.

Tasty1 02-01-2010 01:09 PM

Just go there if you already planned it. There are a lot of hot backpacker chicks in asia and it is a nice experience. If you don't like it with her, find another backpack chick. That must be easy, some man let their girlfriend go there alone.

On a bounty island in Thailand, laying in the white sand with a cute sexy backpackster, drinking beer, sitting at a gogo bar, fuck some hookers, sailing, go to patpong and enjoy. That was what i should do when i was a free man.

_Richard_ 02-01-2010 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by airholland (Post 16803009)
Just go there if you already planned it. There are a lot of hot backpacker chicks in asia and it is a nice experience. If you don't like it with her, find another backpack chick. That must be easy, some man let their girlfriend go there alone.

On a bounty island in Thailand, laying in the white sand with a cute sexy backpackster, drinking beer, sitting at a gogo bar, fuck some hookers, sailing, go to patpong and enjoy. That was what i should do when i was a free man.

:thumbsup:thumbsup

alias 02-01-2010 01:36 PM

nico-t seems like a nice guy, be more of a dick dude.

Caligari 02-01-2010 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by RadicalSights (Post 16802763)
Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

Uh yeah, if that's the case make sure she presents you with all appropriate health cards/certs before hand.

you know what they say-

here today, gone-a-cockus

frank7799 02-01-2010 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by nico-t (Post 16802962)
28 already.... she is 7 yrs younger so i shouldve seen this coming.

You are both young and she is - at the age of 21 - too young for a relationship like Baddog mentioned above. She went to Australia to get some experience. Let her get it and if sheīll be back, time will tell if your story has another chapter.

Iīm 47 and I managed a long distance relationship with my wife some years ago. But you canīt take an old fuck like me as an example. At the age of 28 and for your girlfriend (or former gf) at 21, life has many adventures to offer. Take and enjoy them, youīll regret it otherwise.

combson 02-01-2010 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MetaMan (Post 16802308)
yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback. :thumbsup



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